My best girl friend likes my best guy friend. I told her that she should tell him because he might be moving anyways. My only problem was what if I finaly get them together and I end up left out. I dont think they would not that on purpose but things happen. What do you think?
2006-07-09 20:11:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell him.
If he's moving anyways, what have you got to lose?
2006-07-09 20:14:54 · answer #1 · answered by Alida 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noone should be kept in the dark if that person has feelings for them or not if he is moving there is really nothing to lose stop being selfish worrying about how it might affect you but think about your friend if he feels the same way about your other friend of how there happiness will be put them first this time an not yourself
2006-07-10 03:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See, some attachment between them, if it happens is bound to take some attention away from you, simply because they will be thinking more about each other. Its normal and ok. I don't think it will impact your relationship with them negatively though. I would think they would be even more fond of you for encouraging something nice in their lives.
Be careful though, as you don't know how the guy feels, and remember, you can take a horse to the water, but not force him to drink. Encourage the girl to express herself, but don't get involved in the whole business.
2006-07-10 03:23:56 · answer #3 · answered by Vidyut Kale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look.. unless you're hoping for a three way.. you're not going to be happy either way.. Friends grow up and move on.. that's life hunnie.. the best you could hope for is that they get married and grow old together and live happily ever after.. and you can be proud that you helped two friends find true love..
2006-07-10 03:16:43 · answer #4 · answered by kerbourchardalan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. If they want to be together, they can make up their own minds. This is calling (becomming an adult).
If this turns out to be tragic, you'll get the blame. That's another reason to stay out of it.
2006-07-10 03:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her tell him. Whether he's moving or not, if they're really your friends, wouldn't you want them to be together and be happy for the (possibly) short time they could have together?
2006-07-10 03:16:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all, depends do you thik he likes her, being left out should not be a issue if these two people are actually your best friends like you say they are.
2006-07-10 03:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda w sf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would get left out, but eventually they would come back for ya-you said they were your best friends right?
2006-07-10 03:22:12 · answer #8 · answered by gerkitt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it all depends on u. 'cause i think u should b a link between both so if it all fits decide ur self think twice or thrice because u sad he is moving . ok good luck!any thing more find me at "ipraveen88@yahoo.co.in"
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2006-07-10 03:20:12 · answer #9 · answered by Praveen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is moving anyways and if your best friend likes him, then she sure should try to be happy with him and u should be happy for them. that is called friendship and unselfishness
2006-07-10 03:18:12 · answer #10 · answered by messy_missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why get them together he might be moving anyways. so just leave it as is.
2006-07-10 03:15:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋