2006-07-09 18:34:59 · 34 answers · asked by Kathryn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Being a lesbian means that you are a female mainly attracted to females. Looking at another female does not make you a lesbian, even if it is done in a sexual way. It doesn't even make you bisexual. Many people have thoughts of the same sex, especially as teenagers and young adults. If you feel that you are attracted more to women than to men, then maybe you are a lesbian. If you are just curious, then that's what you are, curious. Don't try to put a label to it, because there isn't really anything to call it besides natural.
2006-07-09 18:39:49 · answer #1 · answered by Courtney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a lesbian if you desire to have relations other than friendship with a gal. I look at other girls all the time. Not just because I'm comparing but because I appreciate beauty.
2006-07-09 18:39:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not. I do the same thing. To me when us women do that it probably means that maybe we would like to have their size boobs, or butts, or maybe their body type. I know I do. I'm not no skinny minny, but i look at other girls...not in a sexual way though.
2006-07-09 18:36:41 · answer #3 · answered by sunnygibson78 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not gay just cause you look,your gay if you want it in bed with you and want to spend the rest of your life with it.And even so that does not make you a bad person or a freak,you now know what make you a complete person,keep looking,eye candy is non fattening and good for the soul.
2006-07-09 18:41:55 · answer #4 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me you are having trouble with your sexual preferance and came here looking for help...... In all honestly joking.
My mom did this when I was young and to this day still does this to me and now I do it to my daughter. You see a women on the street and you go hey is her but bigger then mine? Nothing wrong with it what your doing.
Hell I have looked at my buts hoping to find ones bigger then mine..............lol
2006-07-09 18:39:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I do a lot of comparing though. Gotta have the nicest boobs.
2006-07-09 18:37:29 · answer #6 · answered by Kats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you may say I have no opinion since I am a guy but it does not mean you are if you look other girls assets and think "wow those are beautiful" then maybe but if you think " I wish my butt was as nice as hers" then you probably are not.
2006-07-09 18:39:47 · answer #7 · answered by king_space2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope I have some friends that are knock outs and we are quite open about ourselves and our bodies. That is one of the awesome parts about being a girl.
2006-07-09 18:36:42 · answer #8 · answered by ttti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessarily, you might just be comparing yourself to others. Some times it is an ego boost if you are better looking, sometimes it can give you something to work and strive for.
2006-07-09 18:36:24 · answer #9 · answered by bambi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup. You are a stark-raving bull dyke. Notice how you suddenly lost your attraction to men? The urge to cut your hair short, gain weight, and wear flannel?
2006-07-09 18:37:24 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Goodkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋