My friends always leave the plans up to me... if I did not make the plans we would never see eachother. Don't tell me that they hate me or that I am a loser cause that is not the case. My friends love me... but why are they soooo lazy.
2006-07-09 18:22:51 · 5 answers · asked by Meow 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Because you choose to keep doing it. Put your foot down the next time you are all together. Tell them each of them takes a turn at planning something to do. If they cant figure out when. Have them draw for the week they are in charge of planning one outing together or ever how man you do. or you could start calling your friends and have them to your house and sit at the dining room table and do nothing. Soon they would get the hint and come up with an idea. Or plan something really stupid that you know they will hate. Then they will also get the hint. I am not sure how old you are but if you were 21 taking them to a female strip show. They would be so embarrassed they would never leave the plans up to you again. oe even better do not make any plans for one of them to do it. let them make the first call.
2006-07-09 18:35:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the way you act is correct and should be praised. you are some one that happenning, more idealistic , creative , fun, onfident and friendly. that is the tokens you have that make you more good in making plan every time. your friend they might need more influence from you to have such token in their personality. Maybe when one day, you are very busy and stop planning for a moment, they will realize how much important to be some one like you.
2006-07-10 01:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do plan together,or you will do every plan in you late life with him.He is too lazy,not be a good dad maybe.,
2006-07-10 01:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by adam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are leaders and others followers.
You happen to be a leader.
Great quality.
2006-07-10 01:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They believe you should be in charge because of those funny ears coming out of your head.
2006-07-10 23:23:29 · answer #5 · answered by Pancakes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋