I think I may be bi, but i dont wanna be.
am i in denial and should accept it or be striaght.
I do find girls attractive.
2006-07-09 18:17:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Deep down in your heart you know. Its what you can live with or what you can't live without. You don't have to accept anything you don't want to just pray to God for strenght . I know what your going though. I'm straight woman but pass 2 years I was attracted to this woman I worked with. I like her and deep down I wanted to have a relationship with her. I'm not gay I never acted on my thoughts andpray to God. He took it away and then I aloud it to come back. Its fighting battle but all up to you what you want to do.
2006-07-09 18:29:49 · answer #1 · answered by n 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Stop a second. If you are bi, doesn't mean that you've got to go out with both guys and gals - just means you have the option to.
Accept yourself for who you are and if you can't/won't go out with a girl - then stick to guys.
I hope you find someone who fulfils you. You may get pangs for a same sex relationship and, if you do, you'll need the strength and support of the one you're with to keep you faithful to him.
Best Wishes
2006-07-10 04:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer this question, either you are or you aren't. If you are, you have to accept it because it's part of who you are. It's okay to be bisexual, it doesn't make you a bad person. Just know that you are not alone, there are a lot of people who are confused about their sexuality. Take some time to relax and sooner or later, the answer will naturally come to you.
2006-07-10 01:31:11 · answer #3 · answered by Stacie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer this question. Do some serious soul searching and meditation. Perhaps you are bi...but a lot of straight girls find other women attractive. It's natural. Best of luck on your journey!
2006-07-10 01:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by silent.peace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We don't know if you're bisexual, that's on you to find out. My advice? Talk to some bisexuals and lesbians, get involved in some GLBT clubs and make yourself comfortable with the idea. I refused to admit that I was bisexual because I was scared of it, but I made friends with some non-heterosexuals and learned that there's nothing wrong with it. And then it because easier for me to accept my sexuality.
If you're bisexual there's nothing you can do to change it. You can choose not to engage in same-sex relationships, but all that will do is make you unhappy in the end. It's best to find out who you really are and accept it. Be happy with yourself. If you only find girls attractive, however, I wouldn't be too concerned. If you're bisexual, you find girls sexually attractive, you want to be with them sexually, and you like all aspects of being with another female.
2006-07-10 02:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by holidayspice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing wrong with finding another female attractive, it shows that you are not a shallow person & have respect for other people. That doesnt mean you have to F*uck them, or kiss them or anything with them!! If you dont want to experience it, then dont its as simple as refusing a drink or drugs......But if the question still lingers in your head maybe one nt of fun with someone you trust wouldnt hurt, it only has to happen once...if you want...& no one would ever have to know!
2006-07-10 12:48:50 · answer #6 · answered by BooSha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can find girls attractive and not be bi, nothing wrong in thinking one is pretty. The question is, does it excite you when you do look at them as well when you notice how pretty they are?
2006-07-10 01:23:35 · answer #7 · answered by merlinsdragonfire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I think we over think our feelings. I am by know means saying we should not question ourselves. But just because you find girls attractive doesn't mean you bisexual. We are bombarded in our society today by sex, skinny beautiful woman more often than men. Let alone, in our society, women are allowed to hug, kiss, hang on one another, hold hands,etc, but men are not. I and my girlfriends did all of these when I was in school, but it did not mean I wanted to have sex with them, it simply means I cared for them. Good luck in find that person, you know the real one*smile*
Although whether you call yourself bisexual or not, you are who you are and only you really knows who that is.
2006-07-10 02:49:12 · answer #8 · answered by LoraNutt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do have a choice in the matter. If you don't wanna be, then don't focus your attentions towards the same sex.
If you do something you do not want to do, might this end up in feelings of guilt.?
While I hope not to elicit some harsh comments or stir up any angry feelings in others, I do know of individuals who have or have had a homosexual/bisexual tendancy but choose not to act on them. They are living happy lives.
2006-07-10 01:26:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, you're definatly bi. So you should start making out with beautiful women everywhere, starting today.
2006-07-10 01:29:07 · answer #10 · answered by captaincoolbeard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋