I've consulted diagrams and even informational sites (theclitoris.com...no joke) and it seems like my urethra is where my clitoris should be....what do i do? My boyfriend wants to do oral sex on me, but i dont even know where to direct him. Should i see a doctor about this? I SERIOUSLY cant find it! Apparently its supposed to be under an opening/hood...but i dont have anything like that in the area where its supposed to be! Its just not there!
2006-07-09 18:15:40 · 10 answers · asked by Heather 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You have one. Get a mirror and you will find it. It just may be small. And there is nothing wrong with that. Don't worry, you really do have one.
2006-07-09 18:24:28 · answer #1 · answered by purple dove 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In many cases the clitoral hood completely covers the glans, as seen in the photo below.
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/0/0b/Sarahvulva.jpg/220px-Sarahvulva.jpg
A photograph of a human vulva, with the clitoris obscured by the clitoral hood and folds of the labia minora.
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/f/f5/HumanVulva-NewText-PhiloViv.jpg/220px-HumanVulva-NewText-PhiloViv.jpg
There is considerable variation among women with regard to how much of the clitoris protrudes from the hood and how much is covered by it, ranging from complete, covered invisibility to full, protruding visibility.
A well-developed clitoris will be easy to see, but many are so small and hidden by surrounding tissue that a woman may only know where it is by knowing where it is most sensitive to her touch, where she rubs while masturbating. If you both have trouble locating the clitoris,
Depending on the size and tightness of her hood you may not be able to retract it far enough to expose the clitoral glans. If this is the case, you may be able to feel it under her hood. If her glans is small, you may only be able to detect the shaft of her clitoris when she is erect, but not the glans itself. There are shafts that are very thin and hard to detect. In this case, you may only be able to identify it when you feel it become erect between your fingertips.
2006-07-10 01:26:01 · answer #2 · answered by emigirlz_2boyznagrl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is always wise to talk to your doctor. The worst that could come out of this is that your man will become an olympic sex machine trying to get you to orgasm.
2006-07-10 01:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by Andrew R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's strange your clitoris is missing. Better see your doctor to clarify your doubts.
2006-07-15 07:45:42 · answer #4 · answered by rafiki 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, get a camera and take some pictures or something. A mirror could be helpful too.
2006-07-10 01:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by omgitsafish 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
My clit is on the underneath the part where my lips meet...if that helps at all - and it feels great when touched. You'd know if you had one, trust me.
2006-07-10 01:19:55 · answer #6 · answered by pretty girl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's there.
Buy a mirror and explore.
2006-07-10 01:19:47 · answer #7 · answered by Mike K 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that question should be asked in an OB-GYN clinic and not here.
2006-07-10 01:19:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i hope yor not from the middle east cause if you are sorry charlie
2006-07-10 01:20:32 · answer #9 · answered by Tim D 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yeah, this dude I know doesn't have one either
2006-07-10 01:18:49 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋