Im always putting myself down and saying that i look like crap even though i dont and im always self conscious, what can i do to stop?
2006-07-09 18:14:10 · 9 answers · asked by *Chelsie* 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Even the most successful and confident people have insecurties. The best way to think more highly of yourself is to do something worth while everyday. It will help you focus less on unimportant things.
2006-07-09 18:20:39 · answer #1 · answered by Sexy Ray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds more like you are trying to draw attention to yourself by putting yourself down so others with contradict what you are saying. You said it yourself "I say I look like crap even though I don't" Well either you do or you don't, it can't be both ways. Do you have low self esteem and need others to say good things about you to make you feel better about yourself? If so, try to find the positive things about yourself and focus on those. Half of everything in life is about your attitude and how you approach it. If you look at the positive things about yourself and focus on them you will improve your self-esteem.
2006-07-09 18:24:08 · answer #2 · answered by tcb396 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about some self respect? You are beautiful in every way posible. You can't see that because you don't love yourself enough to do so. You are not only beautiful, but wonderful, awesome, and unique. As long as there is a lovely person inside, there is a marvelous person outside. Keep your chin up and don't let anyone or anything put you down, including yourself.
2006-07-09 18:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by mellowdnay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm.....every girl has insecurities
BELIEVE ME u r not alone
try this when u wake up every morning look in the mirror and don't look at the bad things just try to find the good things no matter how bad some1 hates themselves everyone likes at least one thing. try and find as many quality's in yoUrself as possible. and when u look in the mirror look really closely at ur self, inside and outside and decide if u are happy with who u are.most of the time if u are happy with ur insides it shines on ur outsides. and every time u start to think u look bad just think of the people that love u and what they love and like about u and then think of what u love and like about u.remember its not about the flaws its about the good things. :)
2006-07-09 18:31:35 · answer #4 · answered by Julia Projo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don' know cause I'm the same way. I'm very self conscious myself. But I started not caring and realised that the people in my life really don't care that much and love me for who I am. And they think I'm really pretty and I know that I'm pretty to some extent and I know I'm skinny (I'm 17 and 5'2" and I weigh 90 pounds) but sometiems I think I am fat but I know I'm not....Just know that your family and friends love you and I'm sure you're beautiful inside and out.
2006-07-09 18:25:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont u love yourself , hey gal u r the wonderful in this world and all of them also.if u look at poor countires u 'll see how lucky u are.
2006-07-09 18:21:23 · answer #6 · answered by Narumi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well stop thinking negative and start thinking positive. If yu think positive than you will stop thinking bad aout yourself. Its the inner and outer beauty that counts! :)
2006-07-09 18:21:25 · answer #7 · answered by baseball_38703 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well wat i do is when i get up i think of things i wanna do today and make myself feel good. also it helps to be around a good group of friends a family members. also music can help to like ur favorite songs or clothing too
2006-07-09 18:27:13 · answer #8 · answered by jeri_lynn_14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do good for yourself and other people and be confident!
2006-07-09 18:18:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋