My ex-girlfriend had her last menstruation about 3 weeks ago, the last time we had sex was about 2 weeks ago and I didn't came inside of her at all, we broke up the next day and she recently called me and told me that she is pregnant. Is that possible? I mean how can she actually know if she is pregnant within 2 weeks??? Her period is not due for about another week...I've heard that she needs to wait for her period to come and if it doesn't then maybe she is pregnant. I don't know if she is just making it up so I get back with her..I don't think its possible for her to know if she pregnant within 2 weeks of doing it...PLEASE HELP...she has been calling me all sort of things for not believing that she is pregnant...I NEED YOUR HELP ASAP!!!!!!!!
2006-07-09 18:12:29 · 10 answers · asked by <~Xcorpion~> 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
She already took a pregnancy test and SHE told me that it was positive, I haven't seen 'cuz she doesn't want me too...but is it possible to know if the last time we did it was 2 weeks...??? Don't they have to wait like a month to see if their period is late???
2006-07-09 18:31:51 · update #1
There is no way at this point to be completely certain. She could have gotten pregnant on the second or third to the last time you had sex with her. Even doctors guess at these things. The only way to be certain is a paternity test, there is one you can do while she is pregnant, but it is costly and dangerous to the baby. Wait until it is born and have a test run.
You are within your rights to demand a paternity test. Be prepared to pay for it or you can try to go through the courts. You want to have the test done, don't give her any way to "fix" the results and trap you.
When she calls, just say, "until I have a paternity test, I don't want to hear from you." You can make arrangements to pay her back for pregnancy expenses once the baby proves to be yours.
This same thing happened to my brother. She swore up and down that the baby was his and was pissed and screaming when the test said no.
Oh, one more thing, don't let her put your name on the birth certificate, or otherwise name you as the father. Sometimes the court will go by the birth certificate even if it's not the baby's daddy.
Good Luck and don't let her trap you, keep your distance, with a court order if you have to.
2006-07-09 18:27:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that could be possible. Some pregnancy test kits out there are able to detect results even before a girl's period is due. The best thing would be to have a long/serious discussion with her. If she is indeed pregnant, then ask yourself if it is definitely out of the question getting back with her. If so, then be a man and accept the responsibilities. Just because you didn't come inside of her doesn't rule out the possibility that she could be pregnant. Pre-ejaculation could get a girl pregnant as well as the real sperm. Best of luck to you both!
2006-07-10 01:21:58 · answer #2 · answered by Angelheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're asking two questions.
1. Is it possible to become pregnant if a man does not come inside? The answer is - "yes" (unfortunately for you). The bodily fluids generated before you come contain some semen already.
2. How to check whether the person is pregnant. If I remember correctly, most of tests work after the missed period. You can read more about pregnancy tests here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pregnancy_test
2006-07-10 01:23:15 · answer #3 · answered by hec 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably right about her lying. Its true that its very difficult to know that early although I assume its not impossible. Have her take a test while you are near, so she can show you the results.
And fyi, not comming inside a girl doesn't mean she can't get pregnant. She can get pregnant from prec*m alone.
2006-07-10 01:19:20 · answer #4 · answered by TiFFeRz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get a brain, you can have sex 3-5 days after the period... so it was prolly safe, plus you didnt ... yanno...
Who dumped who? If she dumped you she has to pay for the DNA test and vice versa.
Who the baby daddy?
2006-07-10 04:21:54 · answer #5 · answered by aikeeaguineea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with her to a gyn and have the test done. You will have written proof if she is or isn't. You should of used protection. Lesson learned I hope.
2006-07-10 01:36:40 · answer #6 · answered by itsmeee2006 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait nine months. If she gives birth to a baby, then yes, she is pregnant.
2006-07-10 01:19:20 · answer #7 · answered by coffeebean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, if she is using this to get you back with her, you need to get your azz to the store, buy TWO tests and see for yourself. If you leave her totally alone, she'll be banging everything with nuts and then say it is YOURS if you aren't careful. Go...NOW !!!
2006-07-11 20:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to get a test done and prove it if she cannot "Do Not Talk to Her any more" my best advice anyway
2006-07-10 01:33:12 · answer #9 · answered by thegreatone3381 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
offer to take her to the doctor then see what happens
2006-07-10 01:34:02 · answer #10 · answered by Sandra K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋