2006-07-09 17:57:49 · 29 answers · asked by baseballfan0808 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Which sex do you fantasize about when there is no one around to judge you?
2006-07-09 18:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by bikerchickjill 5 · 15⤊ 5⤋
Although at the heart of it the answer to this question is black and white; with peer pressure and all of the external influences telling you what you should think is wrong/right cool/not cool it is hard to come to grips with the answer that is truly yours. Some people don't even really find out until they are in their 40s or older, mostly because they succumb to those external influences, and defined themselves by other people standards. Just be honest with yourself regardless what other people tell you. You will know, then go with it. Trust me when the time comes you will know what you are.
2006-07-09 18:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by Gynolotrimena Lubriderma-Smith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexuality is a mental activity not a physical one. your body will react to stimulus regardless of who provides it as long as your brain does not get in the way.
If you do not fantasize about sex consciously or in dream and you are at or beyond puberty you are probably A-sexual. This is actually a good thing. You will still enjoy sex when you meet the person that stimulates you emotionally but you will not obsess like most people about sex with any one that looks good.
2006-07-10 03:15:39 · answer #3 · answered by mike g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very simple:
Even though I hadn't had sex, yet, I was still madly in love with Angela Aldridge and very much wanted to have sex with her. Her brother Richard did not hold the same fascination for me.
Using that evidence, I would have had to concluded that I was "straight". I never did sleep with her, however I have spent a great many years since then proving just that point.
2006-07-09 18:01:54 · answer #4 · answered by Bradly S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get the question, just wait and see.
Some people know from a really young age, my partner knew from 9, it took me a lot longer and a string of relationships with both to know, actually I still don't I'm happy with either.
2006-07-09 19:19:40 · answer #5 · answered by trash_pony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A typical question aimed towards making people to question their sexuality, right? Why do you care and what is ur real motivation for asking? If a person is a virgin that means he or she doesnt want you, so go back to your homo love den and bugger your buddy. We dont want nothing you have to offer.
2006-07-09 18:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by jack f 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are trying to convince yourself that your gay. I am advising you against it. Its OK to find a man attractive, but not to have sex with him. being a man is hard deal, but stick to it. You don't want to become some other man's girlfriend.
If you're a virgin, you're still straight. And you should stay a virgin until you have been with a woman.
2006-07-09 18:10:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may shock you to hear this, but sexual intercourse only plays a small part in sexuality - if any at all!
Sexual attraction is what defines your sexual orientation. Do you find women attractive? Do you find men attractive? Is it possible that you find both attractive?
2006-07-09 23:40:13 · answer #8 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is: How can you tell your sexuality if you're so sexually frustrated you don't care anymore......
At least that's my experience. :)
Well, lets just say I had quite an obession with a certain piece of male anatomy.
2006-07-09 18:01:17 · answer #9 · answered by Kats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can know who you are most attracted to, men or women. And just because you have an attraction to one certain person of the same sex, doesn't mean you are gay, just curious. Or just because someone tells you that you are gay, doesn't make you gay
2006-07-09 18:00:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at a picture of say....pre-pregnancy Britney Spears? Turned on? No, but you like her shoes and sparkly outfit? Then you're gay.
2006-07-09 18:02:35 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋