getting divorced, I have met a great guy wasnt looking for any one he would like 1 or more children am i crazy for wanting that with him meaning 4 kids already and i want more wow or am a little on the crazy side
2006-07-09 17:51:27 · 11 answers · asked by Sexy Mama 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
As long as you take care of your children and don't treat them different cause you're in a new relationship then you can have as many children as you (not my tax dollars)can afford
2006-07-09 17:55:32 · answer #1 · answered by lalapolly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you support the four children you already have without a man???
You've had one relationship go south (divorce) there's no guarantees the 2nd one won't too, in fact the odds are even higher (first marriages 60/40 odds, second 70/30, third 80/20). So the question then becomes if this marriage ends up the way the first one did ...how many children do you think you can afford on your own?
If you can't afford to raise them alone, don't have any more. Maybe you should consider taking the money you would spend on more kids and going back to college or university and getting back into the work force so that you are financially secure in case it happens again.
2006-07-09 17:56:56 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not crazy!!!!
Having children with someone you love is the best thing in the world...
But depending on the age of your four just remember all the nights you will have to wake up for again, pottying training, etc..lol,
Go for it... children are the best gift that anyone could receive.. I have 4 also!!!
2006-07-09 17:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by DeeDee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 'little' on the crazy side is an understatement.
Fully crazy is more the term I would use.
2006-07-09 17:56:05 · answer #4 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're more than a little on the crazy side. Four? Five? That's nuts.
2006-07-09 17:55:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont know how old you r but i think taht 5s alittle 2 over the top especially if your saying already 2 4
2006-07-09 17:58:17 · answer #6 · answered by klo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you can provide and care for them, why not. As long as it's what you want too, though. One day you'll be dead and you'll wonder what the fuss was all about, so why not try to be happy while you're here? Go for it.
2006-07-09 19:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by monkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is right as long as you can take care of them that is all that matters. If you marry this guy he deserves to have you bear his child. Just take it slow. No rush this time, K?
2006-07-09 21:10:20 · answer #8 · answered by Dream Bree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe just a little what i mean is you probably love kids and you would want as much as you can
2006-07-09 18:01:55 · answer #9 · answered by love me cutie! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can support them than go for it crazy lady
2006-07-09 18:01:44 · answer #10 · answered by ~DANiELLE~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋