my best friend boyfriend is my best friend for 4 years also so how can i tell her
2006-07-09 17:31:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you DONT....not if you value the friendship
which is more important to you...a crush on some guy or a best friend of 4 years? Guys come and go but friends stay constant in your life. Don't ruin your friendship over some crush.
2006-07-09 17:34:52 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What difference will it make to tell her since you're her best friend nothing will ever happen. RIGHT? If she's your best friend you should care more about her feelings than your feelings for her boyfriend. You need to check yourself.
2006-07-09 17:40:59 · answer #2 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think it over, if u have real feelings for the guy and vice versa and u think u can make it work, only then go forward...offend ur best frnd and go out with him. Sit her down and break it to her gently and pray to god she understands. But u can definitely give up hope of having her friendship after this.
2006-07-09 17:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by ana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you value your friendship you will keep it to yourself, most likely you just like him because she has been telling you good things about him and you would like to experience for yourself, but you can find someone who is single to have feelings for other than your friends boyfriend, if you tell her if will ruin your friendship and you will lose a important friend who has stuck by you many years...
2006-07-09 17:44:28 · answer #4 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not a good idea at all. This will most likely end your friendship and hurt her. I know this is not what you want in the end. Be considerate of their relationship and her feelings. Just keep that to yourself.
2006-07-09 17:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by anje_s2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I just hope you didn't do anything bad with him. Cause if so, I would be your ex best-friend. I think you shouyld just let her be with her boyfriend. And if her boyfriends loves you more than her than I think he should leave her and go with you cause cheating is so wrong!
2006-07-09 17:35:40 · answer #6 · answered by Minski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices:
1) Tell her you have feeling for her boyfriend
or
2) Keep your friend.
You can't have both. Decide which is more important to you.
2006-07-09 17:37:47 · answer #7 · answered by Tish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never tell her that unless ou don't want to be her friend anymore.
If your thinking of stealing him. You don't want to warn her just take him. But who do you love more your friend or her man?
2006-07-09 17:35:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't. Just get over it. Suck it up and get over it. If you really care about your friendship, regardless of what is said...it'll never be the same.
2006-07-09 17:34:56 · answer #9 · answered by Gia S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ever tell her.. she's your best friend... go to http://pannga.com for advices..
2006-07-09 17:35:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋