There is this boy, I think he likes me cause he always flirts with me..I like him as a friends, but not as like a boyfriend.....what do I do?
2006-07-09 16:50:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dont lead him on... talk to him honestly about it even tho it might be really hard.. its better to be honest then to get his hopes up. just be nice and be a friend to him. gl
2006-07-09 16:53:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you just want to be friends. If he still comes on to you, tell him to back off or it's over. I hope you have luck.
Speaking of luck, you are LUCKY! I don't think anyone in my grade likes me, only as friends. I wish I had a boyfriend. The only time a boy ever asked me out was on a bet that'd I'd say no.
2006-07-10 00:58:04 · answer #2 · answered by stephygirl4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...He probably does like you. If you just to be friends with him then let him know that. Otherwise he'll keep flirting with you, and possibly ruin a potential friendship. If his flirting bothers you then let him know. In the end though, he's gotta know that you dont like him the way he likes you. From there
A) He accepts it, and stays friends with you or is heartbroken
B)Demands more. Then, you have to get hard with him to let him know
hope it helps
2006-07-23 23:52:43 · answer #3 · answered by xrequiemofdeathx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly how you feel. Say "I'm flattered that you like me, but I just want to stay friends. I like you, only as a friend, and I wouldn't want something like this to jeopradize the realtionship we all ready have. I'm not ready for the next step yet." If he gets mad, let him go and be mad. He'll come to terms with your feelings and act like a friend who is not trying to woo you.
2006-07-21 03:32:32 · answer #4 · answered by Allyson B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya gotta be honest. Try not to lead him on. If he asks you out, kindly refuse and play up that you hope that won't hurt your friendship. It may take a little time for things to be normal again after he recovers from a shattered ego.
2006-07-09 23:54:02 · answer #5 · answered by daisy99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He always flirt with you but he did not say he like you.Maybe he like you as a friend so be friend with him and as you two go along you will know more about him.If he likes you more than friend.
2006-07-09 23:57:13 · answer #6 · answered by frauline2470 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him if he likes me and if he does i would tell him that i just like him as a friend
2006-07-09 23:53:40 · answer #7 · answered by rose c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be a friend, if he tries or says something leading you to think he wants more, just be honest with him and tell him no.
2006-07-10 00:08:30 · answer #8 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably does like you. Be friends with him. If he is a respectul kind person, he will accept that and continue the relationship as a friend.
If he demands more... Tell him your position, if he accepts that, all is good. If he does not, tell him goodbye.
2006-07-09 23:51:50 · answer #9 · answered by profit0004 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he needs 2 face facts just tell him u only like him as a friend
2006-07-10 00:19:39 · answer #10 · answered by Latina devil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting with you doesn't mean he wants you to be his girlfriend. Flirting is just being friendly.
2006-07-21 19:17:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋