what should i think about a friend trying to block my relationship?

Question

MY FRIEND KEEP TELLING ME THE GUY I LIKE IS NO GOOD,OH YEA, HE IS HER COUSIN.SHE TRIES TO KEEP BOTH OF US AWAY FROM EACH OTHER.SHE MADE HIM PROMISE NOT TO GET SERIOUS WITH ME.BUT SHE"S ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT HOW SWEET HE IS.SHE HHAS BEEN TRYING TO SET HIM UP WITH OTHER WOMEN.I AM IN A BAD MARRIAGE (BABY MOMA DRAMA)I'M TRYING TO GET OUT OF.WHAT SHOULD I DO?

i really need someone to give advice,before i know whether i need to keep this friend or not

Answer 1

Ok, I am going to try to answer this as honestly as I possibly can. The thing is, YOU have to worry about YOU right now. You say you are in a bad marriage, but you are already trying to replace him with someone else? You really need to remove yourself from this marriage before you start looking for someone else. Then, once you have done this... you need to take it slow... figure out who you are as a person again. Play the fields, why try to jump into something already? Hell, there are many fish in the sea, and damn they are fun. Respect yourself enough to find out what is out there before you jump right in again.

Sounds as if your friend may have a problem with the fact that you are still married and trying to hook up with her cousin... OR she may know you both well enough to know you are NOT compatible. I think I would listen to her, and me when I say, 1) Get rid of the butthead, 2) Go out and have fun, you have no idea what kinda fun I have had being single... you can too, you deserve it! 3) Don't tie down with the first thing that comes along... who knows, you might find yourself in a bad marriage again...

Hope this helps and good luck!

Answer 2

your feelings come first and foremost then anything else is add
1. resolve the problem with MAMA DRAMA
2. see if you are ready for another relationship so soon
3.how long have knew the friend do they have your best interest at heart
4. what do your friendship is to you
5. pray for guides the holy ghost will help you because he Say's "I will be your present help in the time of trouble
good luck

Answer 3

It sounds like she's trying to protect her cousin from the unhealthy drama in your life. Get settled away from your husband if that's what you're going to do, and then you'll be free to see about another relationship.

Answer 4

Dont give your friend up just because you like this guy he may be sweet and all but she might know stuff you dont...if you really know whats best you wont waste a friendship on a guy....If your marrige is bad than you should get out of it ....but always remember BOYS ARE WHATEVER GIRLS ARE FOREVER!

Answer 5

sit down and talk to them see what she is really doin she just might be protectin you from something or she is jus bein rude find out the truth before you assume something that is not true.

Answer 6

She is trying to tell you that you have issues that need to be worked on before you go messing aroung with her cousin....

you said it yourself , " BABY MAMA DRAMA".....work that out 1st before doing anything else!

Answer 7

if you like him than talk to him dont go through your friend, its like getting third party informantion. and you want it from the horses mouth. call the guy and see i wants to go on a date and if he does dont tell your friend, and she was lying about him then you know you should not be friends with her. and if she was tell ing the truth than thank her

Answer 8

well you may have to drop her and tell him the truth just pray about it Friend will come and they will go you will find out who is Friend or foe when things get tough

Answer 9

ur frnd cares 4 u n possesive about u

Answer 10

she just wants your man you need to step your foot down and tell her straight up that is my man not yours so stay out of the relationship