my girlfriend is pregnant and won't give me sex what should i do?

Answer 1

Depends- Are you talking to her about it or trying to force it on her? Cus if your talking to her, it would help if you mention the fact that you won't get pregnant while you are already pregnant, AND DEFINANTLY MENTION- That having sex will halp when it comes to breathing exercises and will help for contracting muscles for when the day comes to give birth, she will do better down in that area cus the sex is doing keagal exercises, and re assure her that the baby will not get hurt, because despite what every man may say that they have a 'huge' penis, it will never be able to hurt, bruise, stab, penetrate, or touch the baby. Don't make it rough sex either!!! Try alot more spooning positions instead of doggie style, and make sure she drinks ALOT OF WATER AND MILK AND GETS PLENTY OF FOLIC ACID (folic acid helps brain development) during her pregnancy. Suggest this to your girl, and you can continue the resaerch on line for her. But you must respect if she says no, than just cuddle with her make her feel beautiful by holding her hand or kissing her cheek, that's what happened for me when I was pregnant. So this is all personal and factual experience. I wish you luck.

Answer 2

Get the facts, then talk to her about it. Here's a link to a good health site concerning the dos and donts of sex during pregnancy:

http://kidshealth.org/parent/pregnancy_newborn/pregnancy/sex_pregnancy.html

She needs to understand that sex during all stages of a normal pregnancy is perfectly safe, with a few common-sense restrictions - in other words, if the reason she doesn't want sex is due to an unfounded fear of harming the fetus, she can be reassured that this is not the case.

However, YOU need to understand that a lot of things are going on in her life right now, particularly during the later stages of pregnancy. Sex may not register highly on her list of "things to do." She is preparing to become a mother, and that may be her primary motivation at this point. Additionally, a woman may become preoccupied about her size during pregnancy, a factor which can also influence sexual desire (to me the size issue is completely unfounded, but that's my opinion).

As in all aspects of a relationship, communication is the key. Talk to her about the situation. Understand her thoughts (and maybe her fears) and let her know your feelings. Work together to find a solution, though you must do so with the knowledge that she may simply not want sex right now.

Dealing with her needs is part of your responsibility as the father.

Answer 3

I agree with Antibiotic Void.

depending on how far along she is, she could also be feeling very uncomfortable, unattractive, or just too tired. so help her out by giving her back or foot rubs, reassure her that she is gorgeous and let her get lots of rest. and for heaven's sake, don't do any of that expecting sex because that'll just ruin it and most likely put her in a bad mood.

OR she could be worried about sex hurting the baby. in that case, go to a doctor's appointment with her and have the doctor explain that the baby can't "see" what's going on, an orgasm won't cause premature labor, etc. good luck!

Answer 4

Men are so ungrateful... she's your girlfriend and the mother of your child. She's going to be going through a lot of hormonal, mental and physical stress to carry that baby to term. Your girlfriend will be going through so much pain and stress for your child, and you're going to be greedy and selfish over something like sex? Dear, you have two hands... so I suggest you pick a hand and get busy because women aren't obligated to give you sex, especially your girlfriend.

As another poster said, "She's your girlfriend not your sex toy."

Show her some respect, because undoubtedly, you wouldn't be able to handle the pain, stress and discomfort that women in general, let alone PREGNANT women go through. Show some courtesy to a lady..

Answer 5

if she doesnt want to have sex dont push the subject.when a woman is pregnant her hormones are all over the place and it is very normal for some pregnant women to not want sex for short period of times or not at all.when she wants it she will let you know but until then dont push it with her.if you love her u will deal with it in a mature way.she wont be pregnant for ever and sex isnt everything.

Answer 6

You just have to Deal with it, I know it may sound harsh but Pregnancy takes a toll on the body and hormones and Really all she is thinking about is the baby and becoming a Mother. Sorry you may have to sit on the back burner for a while. Be strong and just support her through the beauty of pregnancy!!

Answer 7

You probably should not be having sex with your pregnant girlfriend. It's just a little common sense man.

Answer 8

you better get well aquainted with your hand man, cuz when i was pregnant when i said no i meant it. but i can honestly say, most women's sex drive goes up alot during pregnancy so hang in there you never no with the way her hormones are. One day you might be singing the blues and the next be on cloud nine. thats how fast things change with pregnant women.

Answer 9

go have sex with some 1 else

Answer 10

Stop bugging her. She is the mother of your child now not your sex toy.