i i am in a great problem my all friends have boyfriend but i didnt hav coz i dont think that its not too smart to hav bf in this age.... i am 12 years old girl....but my all friends tease me that i am not beautiful for that no one of the boyz like me...but i am not too bad in looking....my all realatives used to say that i am very stunnig cute girl......they always tease me...but i dont wana hav a boy friend.....now i am fade up...they are teasing me too much....and not only them all the class mate also...i dont know what should i do...anyone please help me out of these problem please give me some advise what should i do......but 1 thing more i dont wana break our friendship...coz they had helped me a lot....
2006-07-09 16:04:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
Well tell your friends that having a boyfriend at such a critical point in one's life is not a good idea. This is a time to take advantage of your opportunities and open doors; you shouldn't worry about romance at 12 years old. Just ignore your friends; the fact is that they KNOW you're "not too bad looking", they're just teasing you and probably don't mean anything by it at all, so ignore them. The joke will grow old pretty fast, I think... At this point in your life, romance is not a big issue at all; what you really need to focus on is school. You'll have more time for boyfriends later.
2006-07-09 16:12:42 · answer #1 · answered by smashbros12 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i was once 12...like 5 years ago..that wasn't a long time...and a boyfriend is the last thing you need...u wanna be successful and beauty is only skin deep...so when they do try 2 tease u jus remember that them having boyfriends can cause them to come up short...some will end up pregnant and drop out while others will become distracted by them and lose focus when the time comes for them to be serious...and other ones will be all worn out and played out and you'll still be new and you'll still get the guy that u want..and he out there somewhere...and a real friend wouldn't tease u cuz u aint got no lil boyfriend...either they'd try 2 get you one or they'd be cool with you as is..if they don't act like that then they aint ya friends...and don't worry bout ya classmates...they just classmates...nothin to make a big impact on you...so if ya classmates tease u...tease them back and if ya friends tease you...tell them how u feel..and where they can get off at!! lol...and smile...that will make u look cuter...
2006-07-09 23:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by Noelle L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In regards to your friends, if you intend on staying friends with them because they've "helped you a lot" then i'm sure if you talk to them how much their teasing concerns you they will eventually stop. You're at a stage where having bf's are supposedly "trendy" but really, trust me on this, you have plenty of time for all that later. You probably don't believe this but childhood and early adolescence is a wonderful time in your life which you should embrace. Don't let small things like your appearence and trends get to you. Be strong and speak up.
2006-07-10 06:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by miranda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chill pal.tel them to mind their own business and seriously if u dont want to do something then noone should be able to force u to do it.it ur call.its ur life.listen to ur parents because they r right most of the time even though we may not admit that before them.n boyfriends r not supposed to be there because u r at a particular age.if u feel u really like someone then maybe but dont get into something just because of peer pressure.tell ur friends that u want to chill and take ur time.n tell them to get off ur back as its ur life.
2006-07-09 23:16:23 · answer #4 · answered by shwez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before looking for a boyfriend, try spell check. Boys like smart girls
2006-07-09 23:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them to that the teasing is getting old and u want them to stop it but if they're still teasing after that then they are not real friends
2006-07-09 23:09:43 · answer #6 · answered by hoophunny51 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's reeeaaallly hard when you are getting teased but in the end you just have to keep your head high and focus on the good things
2006-07-09 23:14:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
juz ignore them. show them that u r not bothered by their teasing. if they r too much, juz tell them 2 quit it. don't worry abt the frenship, TRUE frens will care abt ur feelings and not tease u if they know tat u do not like it.
2006-07-10 02:23:07 · answer #8 · answered by LYY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tease back, make it a joke. say all the good ones are taken, or you will start dating after they start having kids
2006-07-09 23:10:27 · answer #9 · answered by Theresa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u'll hav bf's all along ur life....no need 2 get 1 wen u don want 1.....as 4 ur frndz...wel if they're tru frndz i guess da teasin shudn't last long...ignore them in necase...or reply in a witty manner 2 get them off ur hook!!!
2006-07-10 02:09:13 · answer #10 · answered by fUnKyGaL_09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋