ive benn with her for 10 years married for 3 im only 25 so most of my life ive been with her we have a 2 year old girl the problem is there is no spark or trust left from her part i cheated 2 years before we were married once and she never let it go ive tryed every thing she looks through my phone, truck wallet and never finds anything but is alway jumping to conclussions and there always wrong any ideas how to win back trust you should already have
2006-07-09 15:56:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
One thing you need to remember is that woman will know when you lie and what you guys did on your very first date. They have this thing about them that know anything and everything. My advice to you is this be calm and patient when talking to her. Don't jump so quickly to arguements, If she yells, doesn't mean you have too. Just be calm and assure that her that fighting wont solve anything.
Show her a side of yourself that you were once before but aren't now and in order to get the trust back from her, just keep the line of communication open between the two of you and always tell her you love her when you wake up and right before you go to bed, and don't forget to throw in a couple of compliments here and there. And for once do stuff that she wants to do.
You'll get the trust back, but it's going to take time. Hope that helps you out.
2006-07-09 16:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by deais74 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All of the answers you have gotten so far are terrible. If she stayed with you then that means she has as much responsibility to get past this as you do to not do it again. Get into marital therapy and the two of you work it out. One cannot expect one's spouse not to be untrustworthy when one refuses to trust. Keep punishing someone for something they aren't doing and he/she will eventually do that something since he/she is going to be punished anyway.
2006-07-09 23:13:56 · answer #2 · answered by emily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the problem you tossed the trust factor out the window when you cheated on her. Some people, like your wife will never ever forget that and will not ever fully trust you again. Do you blame her?
2006-07-09 23:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by James B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife cheated 8 years ago, (first time) and i never get it out of my head. I think about it constantly, but usually i get a feeling in my heart when something isnt right about what she does.
2006-07-09 23:01:31 · answer #4 · answered by jim g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on the Jerry Springer show....he always needs new material
2006-07-09 22:59:42 · answer #5 · answered by Just a guy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seek God pray he is the only who can bring forth change in your marriage
2006-07-09 23:06:50 · answer #6 · answered by k3herring@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋