We have been married for 7 years and together for 9. She was gone to Iraq for a year and that really changed her. There were some clues during her deployment that made me think she found someone new. She has been home for 7 months now and we just drift further apart.
2006-07-09 15:49:41 · 10 answers · asked by mixle_2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do not confront her until you have proof or else she will explain it away and be more careful and it will only get harder to catch her, if she is indeed cheating. Here is a website with a lot of info on how to catch a cheater. It was originally called manhaters, but don't let that deter you, because it was tastefully done and actually respectful to men and only bashed cheaters, male or female. But it has a lot of good info.
http://www.womansavers.com/
2006-07-09 15:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was she in the service? If so, this would be life changing for a person. What does she say when you talk to her about your relationship? Try to be supportive of her - think of what she must have gone through
If she was in Iraq in the armed forces, I would highly recommend counseling
2006-07-09 15:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by moonmother2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10. She detaches herself from your family
9. She picks fights about everything
8. She has a new "friend"
7. She freaks out over simple questions
6. She breaks the routine
5. She primps more than ever
4. She becomes more independent
3. Your sex life changes
2. She's always busy
1. She just doesn't care
2006-07-09 16:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♥♥H뮧hË¥™♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many women cheat in the military and in time it will come to light if she has those things like that have a way of comming out when least xpected beilve me been there and divorced her over the same thing . fact?
2006-07-09 16:49:48 · answer #4 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in service at the war site would change anyone.
You should talk to her and get rid of your fears.
2006-07-09 15:58:07 · answer #5 · answered by amoreflowers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone told me if you feel its happening it probably is happening.i didnt believe until two weeks ago she confessed that it was.not the best answer or the most sure but someting i thought i would share.your heart will lead you in the right direction!!!!!
2006-07-09 15:58:59 · answer #6 · answered by scard4lif 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep a positive mental attitude and go out of your way to do whatever it takes to make her happy.
2006-07-09 16:05:10 · answer #7 · answered by The Donation Man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to HER and talk to the psychologist and marriage counsolers that the army should be providing you with. Also seek help youself.
2006-07-09 15:52:29 · answer #8 · answered by pixipaperdollfairee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she writes checks and has the pool boy over weekly, and you have no pool, she might be cheating on you.
2006-07-09 15:55:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she asks how yer day went....and actually listens.....run like hell....
2006-07-09 15:58:12 · answer #10 · answered by Just a guy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋