I don't live with him, but spent the last four days with him - I told him I had things to do today - like do household chores and stuff. He called me throughout the day asking when I was coming over and I kept telling him that I had alot to do and that I didn't want him to be upset with me if I didn't come over. Hours past and I call him and he wants to know when am I coming over and I tell him I'm not it's a bit to late by the time I reach his home and spend a couple of hours I'll have to leave to go home because I have to wake early for work in the morning - then with out finishing this last line he hangs up on me. So I call him back and his answer machine comes on and I tell him on answer machine he's acting like a child - so I call once more then he picks up - and he's upset. What the hell's going on with that?
2006-07-09 15:44:51 · 6 answers · asked by Leila 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's not mature enough for a relationship. Any grown person understands life is a juggle of love,work,play,rest,illness,etcetera.
You told him 2-3(?) times your plans for the day. He needs to understand you have responsibilities outside of the relationship and not have a temper tantrum in hopes of guilting you into doing what he wants.
2006-07-09 15:52:03 · answer #1 · answered by Duckie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has issues, a fear factor that he cant be with you 24/7 and he is not sure of himself. You need to let him know that there will be times that you two wont be with each other and that he is goin go to have to grow up and deal with it. And be sure to let him know that distrust is the wrong to all relationships.
2006-07-09 15:53:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he needs to grow up, plain and simple!
2006-07-09 15:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by James B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a guy not all guys are like that but i guess yours is. He just wants to see you thats all.
2006-07-09 15:52:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and are his legs broken that he can't come see you?
Not very mature I must say... things to come my dear in the relationship...be warey of it.
2006-07-09 15:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by June 28/10, its a boy! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is mad b-cuz u wuldnt go to his place...
2006-07-09 15:52:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋