You may have answered my question...anyway im not saying im hot but, i dress well, and am fit. For some reason all the girls i have been meeting as of late are drawn to me but already have boyfriends and hence want to be friends. I want to have a new relationship wih a female not just friends thing as i have well enough friends. I like having female friends alot in fact my best friend is one but like i have recently been thinking if im sending a gay kinda vibe or something. First, i am not gay..im not a homophobe, not in the closet, have no desire to do anything to be with a male in that way whatsoever If i did i just would as i live without the backwards boundries inflicted upon the populace by religion and or social standards...im a free thinker. Im a pretty manly guy in my opinion, i ride motocycels i drink beer im in a rock and roll band but.....im just a good listener, i express myself openly and respond to my friends needs with sincerity, i dont like sports cuz i think its boring. Anyway, maybe those you think are gay are just further evolved men that are tired of trying to ask out pretentious females that only see them for what they look like or their annual gross income and not the potentially excellent situation in which real men can parter with a real female ....remember women are much better with communication than men...i am a really good commmunicator for the most part since that is what i do for a living.So, have a conversation with one of your precieved gay hot guys and stare into his eyes for as long as you can.....spend time with him as frequently as possible and hint at what your real intentions are ...if he isnt gay then it will happen naturally...that is... if you are right for one another. best of luck,
Totally not gay Jesse
2006-07-09 16:04:29
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answered by Anonymous
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I have observed that the attractiveness of a guy, as rated by a girl, is inversely proportional to how hard he's trying to hit on her. I'm not sure why this is, but I suppose it has to do with the implicit assumption that if he was really any good, he wouldn't have to be trying to get a girlfriend. Anyway, since this is true, a guy who isn't trying to hit on you at all (say, because he prefers the company of other men) will be percieved as more attractive than an ordinary heterosexual male.
And that's why all the hot guys are gay.
2006-07-09 15:47:43
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answered by Pascal 7
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A lot of the good looking guys are not girl available, which is a sad thing. I mean, if they're blown out hot, it's going to be wasted. There are a ,lot of hot looking available for girl guys, so don't fret. But yeah, it's a real shame some of the hot guys don't like girls.
2006-07-09 15:44:06
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answered by Opinion Girl 4
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I actually asked a gay man this same question once and his answer was Gay men have to look as good as possible because they have a lot of competion.
2006-07-09 23:56:07
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answered by Plays With Squirrels 4
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I think this is because normal guys will dress as a normal guy and won't dress that HOT. Hot guys will go for those kind of fashioned dress, and the interest in fasion belongs to females..
Hop my answer is what u are looking for :)
2006-07-09 15:43:48
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answered by a V a 4
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Probably because gay men are more into clothes and stlye than straight guys. plus gay guys tend to take care of them selves better.
2006-07-09 15:43:45
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answered by Anonymous
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I do not believe hot guys are all gay. There are some hot guys out there who are not gay. For example, Tom Cruise and Brad Pitt, these are hot guys, but they are not gay. What makes you think otherwise?
2006-07-09 15:48:51
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answered by Happy Hero 2
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Because they fall in love with themselves. They first find themselves cute and judge other guys. Eventually, turning gay.
2006-07-09 15:44:59
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answered by Brady 1
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i think most gay guys are good looking because they take the time and energy, such as a female would. Its sad but true... Just admire them for their talents and the hygeine department...
2006-07-09 15:43:18
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answered by doll face 3
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I don't know. How do you know he is??
Maybe because gay men are into the way they look more then other men. Men most the time don't really care.
That's what I think it is. Not sure tho
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2006-07-09 15:42:42
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answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7
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