im only 12,and of course the worst thing happens to me...i get pregnant!!!!im 5 months pregnant.it all happens so fast,the school nurse weighed me and i was 85 pounds,and now im 100!! wat should i do???!!!! my mom has even been asking about my wieght,wat should i tell her?
2006-07-09 15:13:58 · 69 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You'll have to tell her you can't hide it forever. And you didn't notice that you hadn't had a period in 5 months? If you don't want a baby adoption is always a good idea. Think about it and talk to your family.
2006-07-09 15:20:02 · answer #1 · answered by ffantasy1984 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first, r u sure ur pregnant? I don't know the details obviously, but if your going just on the fact that you gained weight you should take an over the counter test to make sure. I can't even imagine how scared you are, and even though this may seem hard to believe right now, everything will work out. You need to tell your mom, period. If you don't feel like you can go to your mom right now, then turn to another adult, perhaps a teacher or the school nurse. There may be people that judge you, but remember to keep your head up. You would be doing the right thing by talking to your mom or another trusted adult and getting the medical help you need to ensure the health/safety of you and the baby. There are options out there, and an adult you can turn to is the best resource for those options. Whatever you do, do NOT try to cover this up or hide it. It will only make matters worse. Good luck
2006-07-09 15:22:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother needs to be told TONIGHT.
What if you need medical help in the middle of the night ???? ANY 12 year old CHILD; is NOT ready emotionally or physically to carry or birth a child. You're looking at some serious medical issues, to say the least.
You cannot hide the weight gain, don't even think of dieting...it doesn't work and it's very dangerous. You ARE going to have a baby, you ARE going to change both physically and emotionally, and you DO NEED your mother,...and you will for the next 18 years.....PLEASE, go tell her tonight. She probably has an idea already.....
You AND your baby needs prenatal care ASAP...you are already 5 months behind.
2006-07-09 15:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by madamspinner2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's say for a minute that you are truly 12??? Wow, just the fact that you are on yahoo answers is enough to tell me that there are some things missing in your life. Maybe this will be the wake up call your family needs to support you and give you the love you have tried to find elsewhere... Apparently the school nurse has already noticed something is up.. so yes you need to find an adult that you trust and tell them! This is very important... If you are already five months along then you need to see a health care provider yesterday!!! Please tell SOMEONE who you trust!
2006-07-09 15:24:49 · answer #4 · answered by annabellerenea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if you are 12, aren't you a little bit scared? I mean, your so young! Right now you need to tell your mother. She act real pissed and want to kill you, but she won't really.She'll get you through it if she is a good mom. But she probably will make you give the child up for adoption. You are far to young to have the responsiblity of a child. Talking to her now will be better. She will figure out what is going on when you start showing more and you will.
2006-07-09 15:20:23 · answer #5 · answered by tricksy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You so have to tell her your pregnant.
She's your mom. She may get upset at first, but she'll get over that. Unconditional love. She'll get you the help you need and help you through the rough decisions you've got to make.
What the heck were you doing at 12 getting yourself pregnant? You're body is so not ready for that in the first place. You're just a child yourself. But to late to turn back time. You've got yourself into an adult mess and now deal with it like an adult. You have to and do it soon!
Face your mistakes and face your mom. You need some support now.
2006-07-09 15:18:18 · answer #6 · answered by monkiegirl37 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the truth is always best. I hope your mom will realize that at age 12 this is probably not entirely your fault but you are still stuck with the consequences. Tell your mom and go from there, the sooner the better.
2006-07-09 15:19:21 · answer #7 · answered by kroe_6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, You need to tell your Mom. You can`t do this alone.
You need to be seen by a doctor. Your baby needs to be checked.
It is vital to you and YOUR baby to tell your Mom. It won`t be easy, But you are about to be a Mom and Mom`s do things that are tough.
Your biggest concern should be for the care of that new life you have made. Your Mom is the Grandparent to that child. She MUST Must Must be told.
As well as the parents of the father and the father needs to know. That baby is HIS child too..
God bless & Hugs from Texas. {:-)
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2006-07-09 15:20:42 · answer #8 · answered by jaantoo1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you having sex at that age? For God's sake you are way too young to be experiencing that act and definitely way too young to be having a freakin baby! What did you think would happen? Didn't you take sex education? This disturbs me. Yes, tell your mom or someone you trust, this baby isn't going any where, it's not going to disappear, it will only appear in 4 months, what are you going to do then. I suggest you tell someone pronto!!!!!
Good luck and stop having sex, wait until you're at least 18.
2006-07-09 15:20:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the worst thing? its not the guys fault for doing it or your fault of letting him do it but both of you. If you arent with the guy, well I bet you thats why you feel like if u dont know what to do. All I can say is that let your parents know that you are pregnant at the age of 12 and see how they will react at first but will soon support you. Good luck though...
2006-07-09 15:19:55 · answer #10 · answered by Emilio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋