First she adopted me from my real mom to raise me as her brother, along with her mom and brother, who r all abroad now with a second brother and a sister.She remained here to not make me go into a foster home, and that's when she met her lazy husband and still live an unhappy life, because she gave up a chance for a better life all because of me, that's why i hate my existance on this world because i ruined a persons life and will always feel like i must give up my dreams for her.
2006-07-09 15:05:52 · 12 answers · asked by scorpion prince89 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have nothing to feel guilty about. Your mother chose to make the decisions that she did. Your mother chose to be with this lazy man. You did not make her do anything, she did whatever of her own free will.
2006-07-09 15:09:14 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom is the greatest mom on earth. Whatever reason for raising whether as a son or a brother she has decided and sacrificed to raise you. She vowed to be with you and not let you go into foster homes that not many can do. You should not be feeling guilty because of things that is beyond your control instead you should let this guilty feeling loose as your mom is full of hopes in you. This is a chance for you to show your love in return. As her lazy husband has given her much burden then it comes to your duty to shower her with love and care and shelter. She needs your love. Your turn to help her to give her a place in your heart.
2006-07-09 15:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First - Each person is responsible for his/her own condition. She made the decision to adopt you and she must have known the responsibilities that came with the adoption. Do not hate your existence. Be sure no mater what people say, you did not ruin her life. Never give up your dreams. A human being is a live as long as he have dreams. Follow yours as long as it aide your survival
2006-07-09 15:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by derek P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely Not........ How do you know she would of had a better life? With out you she wouldn't have anything don't you see... she adopted you because she wanted you..... If she didn't have you she would have probably still picked a lazy husband, that has nothing to do with you..... Her taste in men is her own doing.....She is so lucky to have you and you are lucky to have her....and your life is a gift... do something with it and make it better for you and your mom.... you can be and do anything you want..... it's all up to you to make your life the best it can be.....you sound like a wonderful caring person, good luck to you.....
2006-07-09 15:23:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop your downward cycle. The only person in control of your life your emotions is you. You have to believe you are better than all this. Your very existance with or without a person in your life is the ultimate importance. You can not determine how she lives and no matter what decisions she makes they are her own. Rise above it, realize you are great person, set goals to be better than that and do it. Most importantly step back a minute and smile and take pride in yourself.
2006-07-09 15:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she did the thingsshe did yo raise you--because she loves you--your feeling guilty is normal--just remember what she has done for you--quit feeling like your existence in the world isnt needed---get your *** out there make something of yourself--then she will be proud of you and she wont feel like she didnt raiseyou right--she raised you thebest of her ability--prove to her that you are proudof what she did for you andlive a happy life--
your happiness will make herhappy
2006-07-09 15:19:35 · answer #6 · answered by lhardwick69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey did you ask to be born? listen you have no reason to feel an ounce of guilt , so quit it , you ruined nobodies life . man don't you know you are worth so much ? stop being hard on yourself for something that was not in your control
2006-07-09 15:21:05 · answer #7 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even give it a thought about hating yourself because sshe chose to stay in a bad relatoinship
2006-07-09 15:11:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good gawd sister! If I didn't live on the first floor, I'd surely jump!!!
Just live your own life, okay?
2006-07-09 15:07:36 · answer #9 · answered by Fun and Games 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep in mind this person did all this because they love you...just love them back, help when you can, and be happy with what you got :)
2006-07-09 15:09:41 · answer #10 · answered by mandylou9880 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋