All you mums out there is it really hard and you would rather be independant and just have to worry about ur self and buy things for urself or is it the total opposite???
2006-07-09 15:02:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
ITS A BLESSING!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-09 15:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by sexy_surf_chick06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even being able to have the choice to have a baby is a blessing! You don't realize what you've got until it is gone as it is in my case. Luckily I do have two beautiful children 2 and 8. I personally believe that raising children is one of the most selfless acts there is... You give up a large portion of your heart forever just to raise kids but if it was easy then you wouldn't appreciate the small things so much... That is why we love it when they do those sweet things... (like wearing the high heels! Don't ya love it... my 2 year old boy has had mine on this week lol) So yes they are a BLESSING!!!!
2006-07-09 15:19:03 · answer #2 · answered by annabellerenea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel it's a blessing, but if you feel you're not ready for the responsibility, consider not having a child 'til you are ready.
If you are already expecting, there are so many couples who would cannot conceive and would love to be blessed by a little miracle of their own.
if you're not sure adoption is the way to go, consider open adoption: you choose through an agency, family member or acquaintance where your child is placed. some people even opt to continue to be in the child's life, just not their primary caregiver.
Check these sites out & see what you think:
http://solutionsphc.com/html/beforeyoudecide.htm
http://www.openadoption.com/
http://standupgirl.com/site/index.php
2006-07-09 15:15:37 · answer #3 · answered by 1derous1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Not all pregnancy are the same. A friend of mine had her first child normal and the second was C-section but the third one came out in normal delivery. So you should discuss your fairs with your doctor. If most women think like that most of us would stop at one. Talk with your doctor and get the fact straight, unless there are other factors to your problem. I don't think you should worry most if not all doctors will let you know if your taking a dangerous risk. just pray on it ....God bless
2016-04-09 04:26:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
having a baby is a real blessing from god. I wouldn't give up any of my four kids for anything in this world it is an experince you will never forget and a joy. I won't lie and say it is never hard because it is but it is worth every min. of what you go through as long as having kids is what you want to do .
2006-07-09 15:09:55 · answer #5 · answered by angelgirl12576 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know 3 women that do not want kids and each has gotten fixed to prevent it. I see nothing wrong with that.
If they got fixed then they most likely have no mothering instinct.
I know of an equal amount of women that never should have had kids but sorry to say they did.
I personally have three and I love'em I was not excited about having kids at first but I went along with my wife. Yes they where all planned ...sorta....we had twins and I had no plan on twins.
2006-07-09 16:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by Steve 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is a blessing you'll know once you have your baby in your arms there cannot be anything more precious than that baby it is totally worth it there is not even words to express how much love and happiness a baby can bring to your life
just always know that the baby will always love you unconditionally even when they grow up and think they don't need you they always will need you
2006-07-09 15:18:16 · answer #7 · answered by PAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An amazing blessing and yes you come second for a while but it is so worth it. When the baby smiles at you and laughs when you do something silly, and looking into their sweet little eyes while you are feeding them. It is amazing!!!
2006-07-09 15:22:34 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ to ...... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to have a child is truly a blessing.you dont know for sure how much love you have in your heart until you are holding that gift in your arms for the first time,being there when they walk for the first time and when they talk for the first time.dont get me wrong its not perfect all the time there will be moments where u want to be left alone but then your child hugs you and tells you that they love you,your life before is not even a momery,u cant even remember what life was like before you child and you dont care to know cos u couldnt imagin life without your lil onei have one child already and life have been bliss and now im going to have another child so i tell you my heart jumps for joy and i cant wait!!
2006-07-09 15:53:56 · answer #9 · answered by lovedove662000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
blessing. I had 2 daughters by the time I was 20. I had my oldest at 18 and youngest at 19. I love my daughters' very much. Their father and I enjoy being parents, even though it happened sooner than we had planned.
2006-07-09 15:07:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both There are times when you are tired and you just wnt to be your self and you miss your self, but then they smile at you & fall asleep on your lap and call you mommy & you wonder how you ever lived without them babies aren't for everyone it's a decision you have to make.
2006-07-09 15:10:53 · answer #11 · answered by atotalditz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋