I am in such a quandry..Long story but.. I started to have feeling for a friend. (we are both married).. NOW I am trying to figure out how to stop the feelings.. How do I get over this? How do I stop wanting to talk to him?
I know I need to stop but the temptation is there .. Please advice is needed..
2006-07-09 14:51:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To forget about him go and look for yourself... look for self understanding and knowledge of your own soul. Learn how to understand your own nature and gain learn self control. then you will understand what it is about him that you are attracted to and then, and only then will you be able to make a decision about your feelings for this man.
2006-07-09 14:58:57 · answer #1 · answered by James 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say tis to you but i think u r a very selfish & heartless person. how can u even think of such a thing while being married! i cant understand ppl now a days they take their wedding vows so very lightly, did u or didnt u mean any of those promises u made to yr other half, well to me u sure as hell didnt! all u care is only for yrself, if yr other half found out what u've been up to dont u think it will break his heart. all i can say to u, if u had already made yr choice who to marry in the beginning stick to it u must love him to marry him so dont go n screw up everything. i dont think it's worth it. also think abt tis, if yr husband did tis to u how do u think u would feel....... jus think abt that !!!
2006-07-09 22:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by broken 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about if you Grow Up and stopping Thinking between your legs!
If you need the lesson on how th think with your brain and not between the legs here it is.
First go tell your mommy what you are feeling.
Then go tell your daddy what you are feeling.
Then tell your husband what you are feeling.
Then tell the other spouse what you are feeling.
I bet you your temptation (thinking between your legs) goes away.
You're just looking for someone to say its OK!
2006-07-09 22:07:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage...does that mean nothing to you?
i'm in no position to question you that way...but, gal, think about it, are you willing to give up your marriage for some sort of non concrete feelings? feelings which are perhaps, driven by desires, which only leaves you rotting once you've fulfilled them?
Just, be wise and prioritise your life... your marriage.
2006-07-10 01:43:50 · answer #4 · answered by Prudence 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never will- decades can go by and that's okay, but you must NEVER contact him- don't give up a good thing for something that will never be real
2006-07-09 21:55:22 · answer #5 · answered by mollie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that you have marital issues that you need to address.
2006-07-09 22:12:59 · answer #6 · answered by lavendergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
concentrate more on your home & family. if your involved with them you wont have time to talk to him.
2006-07-09 22:02:24 · answer #7 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another boy that look's betta way way betta
2006-07-09 21:56:56 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♠ Chick07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get a new guy .....gosh
2006-07-09 21:56:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋