So me and this guy talked for a few months last year but he started going with this other girl so we stopped..then a few months later he wanted to talk to me again so i decided to give him another chance....everything was going well the first 2 months of us talking then things started to change...i gave up my v-card to him and then he just stopped talking to me altogether and its been 4 months since we've stopped talking and i'm still not over him, but its pretty obvious that he's over me and its been bugging me for a while. Its so bad that i can't be in another relationship and i was just wondering what i should do in order to get over him?!?!?PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE!!
2006-07-09 14:11:53 · 7 answers · asked by LoMo2008 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
By this being your first you're going to be emotional about the break but one day you will look back at this and laugh at how long it did take for you to get over him. By all means what ever it takes to do so please get over him. You've given him enough of you don't allow him to violate anymore of you than he already has.
2006-07-09 14:21:54 · answer #1 · answered by Tanja S 1 · 10⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should call him and just tell him how u feel about him. that way u can get everything out in the open and u can make him think about everything. then i think u should start writing all ur feelings down in a journal or a diary. that way u can vent. well i hope this helps u and if this does not that u find something 2 help u cuz u really do need 2 move past this. and just remember take every day one at a time and try not 2 focus 2 much on him
2006-07-10 00:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by french mocha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry that you had to learn the hard way (by giving up your v-card. he got what he wanted and left you high and dry.
Do not allow one wasted relationship to turn you against other relationships and yourself at the same time. So you made a mistake, now learn form it. You have just experienced what we call "Life". i think that you may have already gotten over him you just haven't gotten over being hurt and making your "BIGGEST" mistake.
Don't kick yourself for it; it's over and done, water under the bridge. Pick yourself up, go out with somebody else and have fun. Life is too short to waste. Think before you leap and turn your reaction into an action. We have to make our own happiness in life and you are putting up a wall locking your unhappiness in. Pick up a hammer and break the damn wall down one brick at a time. Tomorrow is another day just make it better than today.
2006-07-09 21:25:21 · answer #3 · answered by gmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally dont think that you have been with him long enough to have these kind of feelings for him. Maybe its lust. I dont know how old you are...but what you need to do is meet other guys, go out to clubs with your friends...All this guy is going to do is keep popping back into your life and breaking your heart. You need to stop this cycle or your going to keep on getting hurt. It sounds to me like he is just using you when he doesnt have anyone...Stay strong and next time he calls, dont answer the phone....They are way to many fish in the sea for you to be wasting your time on this guppie!!
2006-07-09 21:15:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you just start talking to him again....maybe he just wants you to make the first move...even if you can only be friends, isnt that better then not talking at all?? Maybe he thinks your over him but ur not, just like you think he is. Just try talking to him. what could you lose?? if not follow the advice of the girl abouve me! maybe hes just using u and u dont want to get hurt good luck!
Sierra
2006-07-09 21:15:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need help. look for support from girl friends... if you lost your girl friends while dating him, reconnect with them again or get some new ones.
stay away from relationships for now. don't even think about entering another one... of course, it seems you can't even bear the idea right now, but one day it might seem like a good idea to throw yourself into another relationship to get away from the hurt. bad idea.
get help and counselling also from your local church's pastor (his wife might be better)... i think having an adult who can guide and understand and support you through a period of healing will enable you to move on.
2006-07-09 21:19:55 · answer #6 · answered by curi05ity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't know what he wants perhaps he is battling with guys and girls for all you know or sexuality .. how old are ya>?he went back to you as your the "comfort zone" he knew you felt close comfoprtable but something isnt right with him, it's not you so get over him sad he is deep down trust me he doesn't know what he wants go on redate..mayeb he thought u wanted a serious relationship he is not ready my motto is neve rgo back go forward! no chances again .. nope he snoozed he losed
2006-07-09 21:17:28 · answer #7 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋