haw Do I climax? it dosent happen durins sex only when i do it my self?

Answer 1

A large percentage of women cannot climax during sex. The only way that I've found that works during intercourse is to position yourselves in such a way that you can stimulate your clitoris (via fingers, his fingers, vibrator). You can do this lying on your back as he stands at the edge of the bed or in a similar configuration.

I'm trying not to sound vulgar.

Answer 2

It is because of too much of sex and being an early starter. Due to over doing of the sex acts, the sensitiveness of the area become diminished and you do not feel aroused. This is the reason you need it to do yourself. People who have very less sex acts get climax almost instantaneously as their parts are still sensitive. Of course one way you can be aroused is by having a lot of foreplay (at least 1/2 an hour) and then get to the main act. It also depends on your partner and how efficient he/she is ?!!

Answer 3

I don't know how old you are, but you need to tell your partner what feels good to you. If you're not comfortable enough to do that, you need a new partner. You could read a book about sex together, see an instructional video (not porn) or seek therapy.

Answer 4

What is your climax like doll?

Answer 5

Girl you need to find a real man.Then you can have him do it the way you want him to.Alot of times if you do it yourself its harder to do it during sex.so have your man do what you do to yourself.

Answer 6

if u are able to do it urself u can then ask ur bf to follow the same lines...may be give him more insight on ur g-spot and stuff...

Answer 7

your partner needs to stimulate your clitoris more.