Ok well my x and i were together 4 2 weeks and we were Very Close and he dumped me 4 no reason and won't go back wit me and every time my buds call him he always says sumthing really mean about me to hurt me like a fat washed up loser and i weigh 103 pounds and i think my friend broke us ^ cuz she went out w/ him b4 i did and she tried 2 break us ^ and i really need 2 know WAS THIS MY FAULT OR HIS????
2006-07-09 14:02:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You were only together for two weeks and he let himself be persuaded by someone else to leave you. My guess - he's an idiot and not worth the five points that you used to ask this question. You are far from fat and you will be a washed up loser only if you allow yourself to be. Pick yourself up and find someone who deserves you.
2006-07-09 14:19:49 · answer #1 · answered by AlongthePemi 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Life is too short to waste time worrying over this loser. Two weeks isn't enough time to establish a meaningful relationship. Count your losses and move on to the next boyfriend. It is a good thing that you found out that he was such a loser...he talks about you to make himself seem big and he only makes himself look and sound like a fool. Love yourself and love will find you. After all, how can someone else love you if you don't love and respect yourself?
Get yourself a bottle of your favorite good smelling shampoo and wash this loser out of your hair and your life. Have a wonderful summer and a better life...one day at a time, making the right choices.
2006-07-09 14:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by gmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wasnt into you. Your not a fat washed up loser hon. You need to dry those tears buy some new clothing (to make you happy and forget about your past with him) get your best mate and go bowling or some other social place and find a new guy to be friends and close with. Hes the loser who cant see how beautiful of a person you are Hes the one who misses out
2006-07-09 15:04:48 · answer #3 · answered by marishka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will only be your fault if you let it be. Unless you are 2 feet tall, I'd say you aren't fat. As far as the washed up loser part, I can't tell by the information you gave. If he dumped you, then the only good reason you should have for getting him back is so that you can dump him harder. Come on...boys grow on trees and there are thousands of them just waiting to be picked by you. So, put on your best outfit, fix your hair up fancy and get out in the world. The men of the world are waiting just for you.
2006-07-09 14:11:01 · answer #4 · answered by Chainsawmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The REAL loser is him.
You sound as if you really cared for him. You even know the exact # of weeks yuo were together.
even if he has decided to move on- his behavior toward you is disgusting.
You deserve better than this. Given time you'll find it.
Sorry to hear you got caught in the middle of these two's games & trife. And "NO", it not your fault. You have no control & therefore no responsibility for the actions of others.
A similar situation happened to me. My cousin introduced me to this guy. A month later, he & I were arguing over things(according to this cousin) I said/ did. I had to let him go bcuz he didn't trust me enuf to talk to me b4 accusing & arguing w/me. Later that month I went away to college. The next month they(my cuz & he) were living together.
I know it hurts to loose/be betrayed by someone you care about, but in time you'll find someone who cares for you the way you do them. i did.
2006-07-09 14:42:34 · answer #5 · answered by 1derous1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like an idiot. Move on. Oh-- and ditch the "friend" too. You are not a fat washed up loser although that is a really funny way to say it.
2006-07-09 14:05:27 · answer #6 · answered by -- 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a fat washed up loser for one....And unfourtunally going out with another man that is your friends, usually dont work out. It was probably the fault of YOUR FRIEND....
2006-07-09 14:12:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, learn how to type, and spell.
second, a two week relationship has gotten you this worked up? get over this loser, and learn something from the experience. going out with your friends' exboyfriends is a great way to lose friends. you end up as the rebound girl with no girlfriends.
2006-07-09 15:54:55 · answer #8 · answered by k m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worrying about what a "man" like that says about you? How would you even want to be close to somebody who hurts you like that? And why would you believe what the guy says when he's so obviously trying to manipulate you? You deserve better.
2006-07-09 14:08:25 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW. Um, no...I'm guessing you're not any of the above... Why are you so worried about what he thinks of you? Hang out with different people sometimes, just to give yourself a new perspective.
2006-07-09 14:06:20 · answer #10 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋