I am very interested in this guy, but I don't find him very attractive. His personality is what draws me to him. But will that work, don't you need some physical chemistry? Confused. Help!
2006-07-09 13:56:44 · 13 answers · asked by CC 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Don't be confused. Personality what matters the most. Your lovelife will be a total bore if you have a guy who is good-looking but zero personality! Very bad. Chemistry can be found in inner qualities of both person not by the cover itself. Good personality will draw into many wonderful things like, with a good SENSE of humor, with intelligence and a happy person to hang with. For me, Personality hit the spot! Good Luck!
2006-07-09 14:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by shaznay 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give him an honest try...I have known some very attractive women, married to guys who are not nearly in the same leagueof looks ! - They love them because they have more than meets the eye.
2006-07-09 14:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son also is sort of in the same situation. He of course is holding out for a young lady who is better looking. I think he is wrong, but who am I to say. Maybe if you keep seeing this individual you will begin to feel physically attracted to him
2006-07-09 14:03:48 · answer #3 · answered by wanninonni 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a man's looks is not everything but it does help. personality is what matters. a guy can be so hot but have a really bad attitude. looks shouldn't matter but yes it's good for the man to have at least a good smile and body too.
2006-07-09 14:01:36 · answer #4 · answered by nAOMi eXUMe' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've found that the more I begin to like someone's personality, the more attractive they seem to me. Give it a shot, if it doesn't work, it doesn't work.
2006-07-09 14:00:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can have physical chemistry without good looks. if you're feeling something, don't question it.
there are men that are attractive, but I'm not attracted to, and
men that are unattractive, that I am attracted to.
2006-07-09 14:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are important but he has to have a good personality too. Try it, and see what happens.
2006-07-09 14:00:51 · answer #7 · answered by gndmalx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might work out better that u like his personality more! Afterall looks only go so far! good luck to u!
2006-07-09 14:00:38 · answer #8 · answered by jibbers4204 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me personally looks play apart in the initial attraction but that will fade away if you really start to like the person for who they are...
2006-07-09 14:01:04 · answer #9 · answered by Dewayne H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always considered looks to be the last thing, but then again none of us want to date an ogre
2006-07-09 13:59:53 · answer #10 · answered by Spice Weasel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋