I got involved with a married man that at first i thought i could handle as a casual thing, as time passed we both fell madly in love. There is a comfort, warmth, glow and total ease when we are together. When I am with him i feel at home. He states the same. However the situation started to weigh on me/us and he started to go to therapy to figure out his emotions. We were going to go away for a "final" trip and then part so that he could figure out what he needed to do. Prior to the trip the wife found out. They have spoken about divorce prior but remained in the realtionship for the childrens(2) sake. We have spoken since and have both agreed that our feelings are the same but he is afraid to lose everything so he is doing what she is requesting. Severing all ties. However he does not know what will happen. Is that normal for men who want to leave and cant or aren't sure? I still am madly in love with him and miss him and the sound of his voice. Anyone have any advice?
2006-07-09 13:55:14 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
For your own sake get away from him. If he wanted you and only you it would be only you. Let time go buy if the situation with his wife changes then and only then should you accept anything from him. If he did this to his wife and sometime in the future you become his wife then the odds of him doing this to you are very great. If you want to have a normal life you will have less chance of finding someone with him around. I know from experience.
2006-07-09 14:20:49 · answer #1 · answered by DEANNA M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going throught the same thing but I am the one in love and he isnt. He knows how i feel cuz he asked and i told him ...i vowed not to lie to him, but I am married but none the less in a love less marriage. He says that he is happy and loves his wife but I cant see how. I know how you feel. IM me we will talk
2006-07-09 21:12:29 · answer #2 · answered by dede 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋