i am 19 years old and me and my fiance have both agreed to wait for sex until marriage. we are both virgins and are exicted to be getting married in less than one week!! since it is so rare to find a great guy who respects my values i want our night to be wonderful. could somebody give me some tips and tricks to make it REALLY pleasurable for him. no holding back please. thanks!
2006-07-09 13:43:32 · 20 answers · asked by ashboo 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
not worried about him!
You do know that your first time very well may hurt.....right? You know that you might bleed a bit.....right? I am telling you this so you don't freak out and so that you can reassure him.
Now about him......he is probably going to *** SO FAST! I mean fast fast! Give him a little while to be able to become hard again and usually things get a little better from there......lots of guys cuum fast the first time...and I don't just mean the first time ever...I mean in a session. Many men will masturbate if they know they are going to be intimate later so they can last longer.
I hope you can talk about sex with each other........be able to tell each other what feels good and what you would like to try. I don't know how you feel about oral.....but you should really try it!
Congratulations on getting Married!
2006-07-09 13:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by adnerb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I congratulate you and your boyfriend on your plan to maintain your virginity until marriage. Second, I think that in today's world, you should not be getting married at the tender age of 19. Life is just getting started. Maturity is still some years away. People live a lot longer now and the world is a mean and greedy place. There are too many divorces and too many children with single parent homes. Love is great! Sex is great! But, there is a time and a place for everything and today getting married so young is taking a real risk. It is your life and your decision; but I would think seriously about giving this relationship another year at least to mature and see if all that is driving you to marry this young man is still present one year from now.
2006-07-16 10:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by bertojame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off congradulations!!!!
here is my advice......
get some pink / red night lights & a bunch of power strips..
& put them in around the room....
tell him you have something for him but he has to wear a blind fold...blind fold him..... tell him to wait you'll be right back.... go put on something really sexy.. take him by the hands & walk w/ him to the room where this is all set up...
walk him to the edege of the bed playfully push him back on the bed climb on top of him & welll ..... let nature take it's course..
or do the same thing except take him into the bathroom & slowly undress him while he is blind folded then guide him into the bath tub as you could get in behind him & give him a hot bubble bath massage!!!
2006-07-09 14:19:02 · answer #3 · answered by MICKFOLEY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a couples-oriented adult bookstore and get some books or DVDs in the How-To section. Most guys really like fellatio. You can also do a yahoo search for sexual techniques. Congratulations!
2006-07-16 07:40:20 · answer #4 · answered by Fiasco de Bacle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the puss, but don't hold back on Bj's too. Maybe a little vag to mouth action, most guys like that because it is kinda dirty, a little. If you are really daring let your man get some anal, but you gotta be ready for that. I hear it hurts.
2006-07-09 13:50:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go naturally and do what feels right. Since you both are vigrins, you have nothing to really compare to, so it should be great for both of, especially since you love eachother. Tell him what you want and he will tell you what he wants. Enjoy!
2006-07-09 13:46:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to be over too fast for you to do anything special for him. Save the thought for your one year anniversary. Maybe by then he won't be a minute-man.
2006-07-09 14:12:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, stop asking for sex advice on a public forum.
Ask a close friend whom you trust.
Do what feels right.
2006-07-09 13:53:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
assuming your telling the truth he should be the one looking for pointers. as a man i believe the most important person in the relationship is the woman. for me, pleasuring her is pleasuring for me.
2006-07-09 13:58:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are weird i would have sex after 1 month of dating him.
2006-07-09 13:51:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋