If you think I should, how should I approach it?
2006-07-09 13:33:03 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, it's not up to anyone else, it's up to you. Although I tried that once, and I guess that he kinda got freaked out and then he started to act really mean to me, but that's just me, not you. Do what you feel is right and good luck!
2006-07-22 12:41:58 · answer #1 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should tell her, but don't rush into it. Start out by doing simple gestures that can tell her you want more than friendship. Like offering to carry her books, complimenting on how she looks, holding the door for her, asking how her day is going. Then you could probably have a sit down and discuss what you have going in your friendship and how that can stay the same, and what would go on if you both took the next step. Doing it this way will most likely not frighten her off because if you didn't she'd think you foreward.
2006-07-20 20:21:32 · answer #2 · answered by Allyson B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your madly in love then you have to tell her. But be ready for the consequences because she might get angry with the idea and think that your taking advantage of your friendship with her. You really need to tell her because like you said your "madly in love" and you will never have a peace of mind unless you tel her. Be brave, be a man. Good Luck!
2006-07-09 13:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by shaznay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'll go one of two ways. you'll lose everything - or gain everything. You HAVE to be sure that she feels at least something for you beyond friendship.
There's no going back once you say you have romantic feelings for a friend - it'll NEVER be the same again. i know from it going BOTH ways. I lost a very good friend & I was devastated.....but many years later I just HAD to let my best friend know how I felt....been married for 3 years now :)
2006-07-09 13:40:58 · answer #4 · answered by creviazuk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it. I think it depends on her personality on how to approach it. Just let her know that you're sincere, that you'll give her time to digest your declaration, and that you two will still be friends no matter what.
2006-07-09 13:38:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does this person feel about you? If the rat springs the trap too soon, the rat gets away. Make sure this person feels the same way. If they don't, you could very well scare them off forever.
2006-07-22 02:47:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should. if you carry on just being friends you may live to regret it. However if you don't know how she feels about you ask. you may both feel the same about one another.
i told may best friend and he was ok about it and he does too but we didn't want to ruin the friendship
2006-07-21 01:08:05 · answer #7 · answered by patrick-the-leprecon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u should have u got to lose maybe she feels the same but shes old fashion waiting for u to star if u don't then someone else will
good luck
2006-07-14 07:10:51 · answer #8 · answered by joann m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL her thats what happend to me and we have been married for 9 years and it has been the best 9 years of my life. go for. good luck
2006-07-21 20:33:33 · answer #9 · answered by possum4885 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if u think she feels the same or else you will loosea good friend
2006-07-19 07:57:14 · answer #10 · answered by cas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋