2006-07-09 13:18:52 · 29 answers · asked by preachers daughter 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
sell them on the black market, you wouldn't BELIEVE how much they are worth these days!
2006-07-11 07:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by angelbaby 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
How far along are you? If it's legal, I'd say terminate the pregnancy. You'll only complicate your life if you carry them to term. You're so young, you have your whole life ahead of you. Do you know how hard it is for a young mother to attend college? That's with just one child. Three children would be insane. Is the father of the children in your life? You won't be burdening your life only if you have these children. He'll be financially crippled for the next 18 years. He'll owe child support, and he'll probably have to work 2 or three jobs to pay support and rent for his flat, and for food for himself. Unless you get married, but why do that? Almost half of marriages end in divorce, and when you get married at such a young age you lose a lot of the fun of young adult life. You'll be stuck as an uneducated stay at home mum, with a working slave for a husband. Looks bleak for both sides. You could carry them to term and give them up for adoption if abortion is not your deal, but that's rather hard to do. Many women form this connection with the developing foetuses in their bodies. When the time come you'll be hard pressed to let them go. Also you might end up on some talk show one day when they track you down. I think terminating the pregnancy might be the best course of action, you may need counseling afterward for grief, but you'll likely be fine, I've friends who've been in similar situations as you. They're fine.
2006-07-09 13:28:33 · answer #2 · answered by practical thinking 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question does not seems to be an innocent one and with malicious overtone. If so, enjoy the outcome and suffer what may come of it. But if you are genuine, tell just how many days the pregnancy is. If it is less than 90 days, you have a fair chance of aborting these. If it is beyond 90 days, confide in your mother, tell the boy who did this to you, and after acceptance, sell your story to a newspaper the state of your mind, etc. as this will be a lesson for other girls of your age.
2006-07-09 13:30:41 · answer #3 · answered by tnkumar1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg triplets that would be cool..but really hard i was 16 when i got preg with my first child and had him at 17 and i got preg again at 17 and had him when i was 18 the i got preg again but i lost the baby ...it is had i know with just 2 i could just imagine 3 good luck hope there daddy is in there live..stay strong though never let a man bring you down..be the best mom you can be
2006-07-09 14:11:02 · answer #4 · answered by cutietraci87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath and well enjoy your peace and quiet time now, cause once they get here you won't get any.
That is the sad truth.
What do you mean you don't know what to do?
Talk to your church, family, friends and see if you can start getting your hands on diapers and wipes now, along with clothes, bottles, formula, blankets, cribs, pack n plays, sheets, pacifiers, toys, walkers, a three man stroller, sippy cups, and so on..
You could also write to Oprah, Dr Phil, many of the other talk shows and see if they get you on TV and maybe you just might get their help as well. Who knows.
I hope the father of those babies is involved.
And I hope that your family is supportive.
good luck and congrats on the kids.
2006-07-09 13:24:34 · answer #5 · answered by Not a Daddys Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Triplets? Well, if you aren't married, find a good home for them or have them live with a relative until you can care for them. If you are married or dont want to give them away, I suggest you ask your parents for help b/c no matter how mad they are at you (if they are at all) they will never stop loving and caring for you. Best wishes!
2006-07-09 13:23:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel being young and having kids i was 19 when my daughter was born and it is hard just with one child I can only amagin how it will be with 3 but you should be happy not every one is even blessed to have one and your one of the few to have triplets.
2006-07-09 13:38:09 · answer #7 · answered by Jesse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How far along are you? What do you want to do?
Raising three children is not an easy task especially if they are triplets. You are the only one that will know what to do.
2006-07-09 13:47:48 · answer #8 · answered by AA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How far along are you? It will be a tough pregnancy and tough when the babies are born (I have a 6month old and just found out I'm pregnant again- so I will have 2 babies under 14months- ack!). Take good care of yourself and pray for strength and trust that God's plan is perfect for you. Seek others that will support and encourage you, not drag you down.
2006-07-09 13:24:41 · answer #9 · answered by Megan O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly you better tell your mom once plausible. Your age on my own makes you extreme threat because you're so youthful. Your youthful age makes you at better threat to furnish beforehand and to have issues contained in the being pregnant. Then combine that with the undeniable reality that you're having triplets makes you double extreme threat. on your own health and the health of your toddlers - tell your mom without delay - you pick to be seeing a health care specialist today for pre-natal care!
2016-11-30 22:59:05 · answer #10 · answered by curlee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main thing is to be sure you have the family, medical, and moral support you & your children need.
Pregnancy can be a stressful time, if you can't speak w/your family or thefather/his family
Here's some info/supportive service info for you:
http://www.crisispregnancy.org/voice_home.html
http://www.solutionsphc.com/
Best Wishes
2006-07-09 13:35:00 · answer #11 · answered by 1derous1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋