i though of running away but he will find me , he always does
i hate him,but he is so strong ,i resist him but i dont know what to do
plz help
2006-07-09 12:46:52 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline:
1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
They have trained counselors who can assist you.
2006-07-09 12:50:32 · answer #1 · answered by oaksterdamhippiechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, get out NOW! go to a shelter, or the police. It is a hard step to make, but trust me, no matter how many times he apologizes or blames you, he is a freaking coward for being abusive. You are a strong woman, be strong and leave.
I was in a relationship similar to yours and the 4th time i woke up in the hospital, i decided that i was too good to be used as a punching bag. I went to a shelter, got help, and started a new life. he tried to find me, but the people at the shelter are there to help you. By the way, he is now in jail, and i am happy and healthy!
2006-07-09 12:51:36 · answer #2 · answered by candi girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gotta start with a question. U been to the authorities yet?? If not U need to do that NOW!!
If you have been to the authorities then you need to find a safe house, like a battered womens shelter and get help for yourself. Break off all contact with him and any family or friends that might tell him where you are. A clean total break has to be made to get yourself safe and on the road to safety!
2006-07-09 12:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by cbwarrantjr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
911 anytime and anyplace. Go to family Go somewhere. The thought of running is not good enough. Your choice: 1 keep having little respect for yourself and letting this @ss hit you over and over 2: find the love in your heart for yourself and the next time he puts his hands on you call 911 and go to family members house and start your life over. The choice is yours.
2006-07-09 12:50:54 · answer #4 · answered by tweeterbird73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where ever you are, you need to contact people for help in getting out of the situation.
Contact the police, the church, look in the phone book for woman's shelters or woman's help groups.
What ever you do, don't believe for a minute that it is right for anybody to hurt you. It is never right to hurt anybody.
Protect yourself and those you love. Good luck.
2006-07-09 12:50:57 · answer #5 · answered by Khalen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police, report him for domestic violence and get to a battered women's shelter. They will help you sort out your life and make the right decisions. Do NOT stay in the situation..you may end up another woman killed by her partner. Do not become a statistic...get out now.
2006-07-09 12:53:12 · answer #6 · answered by catalain1955 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a better luck of leaving untraceable if you go on the
Greyhound or Trailways bus.
Pay cash for a ticket and leave, no identification.
BUT you have to have a destination.
Yes you are to leave because he is sick!
YOUR LIFE is worth more than his serving life for murder if things get out of hand...
Then there was always Lorena Bobbitt.....I personally would defend myself..........and have.
2006-07-09 12:52:18 · answer #7 · answered by susieque 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to go to the police but if you are not from America but from another culture who women are not equal as men i'm sure there's nothing you can do. But if you love your kids if any run away or look for help. I'm from a culture that men beat up their wife. My older sister got beaten up by his husband but she wouldn't leave him coz she's crazy about him. I believe a man beaten up their wife doesn't mean he loves her he doesn't.
2006-07-09 12:55:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a child or a married woman? Who keeps hitting you? If you are a married woman go to a shelter. If you are a child go to a neighbors house and ask for help.
2006-07-09 12:50:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police and get out. Get help, no one deserves to be hit over and over OR at all.
2006-07-09 12:49:40 · answer #10 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋