My wife want to be with another woman. What should I do?

Answer 1

I think I would hide and watch.

Answer 2

This really is a question of what you are comfortable with.

Ask yourself if you consider this cheating. If the answer is yes, then don't agree to it.

Ask yourself if a one-time fantasy is going to be worth risking what it could lead to later. Once you cross one boundary, it is so much easier to skip onto the next. There is no turning back. Are you prepared for the consequences.

Ask yourself if this is within your comfort zone. Ask yourself if this is something you can live with for the rest of your life. Ask yourself if this is going to improve your marriage or break it apart.

Also, ask your wife what she feels she is missing. Ask her if there is something that you can work on together that doesn't involve bringing in another person. What she is asking is to bring in a person between you, not to help you. This woman is going to have wants and selfish desires too. It isn't just a body that she'll get to play with for a while and then say goodbye. Women get attached, emotionally during sex. Do you really want this? It may also be her way of telling you she is missing something in her life. Is she going through a mid-life crisis?

Think about it. Only you can answer this question.

Answer 3

Listen, there are going to be thousands upon thousands of answers to this question,but hopefully u will look inside the love that u and ur wife share and maybe compromise the situation if u are not getting a good vib from the ideal tell her,but if u are like everyman in the world enjoy---just remember that someone else will be ****ing ur wife.

Answer 4

Interesting, not too long ago I told my hubby the same thing. Right now its just a bi-curious thing. He said a flat right out NO i questioned why and he said that he was scared of loosing me. But thats not it at all, i just want to experience/explore a womans body. I think its a middle age thing with me. But ask you wife why she wants it and if its just for some curiosity reason, i really dont see any harm in it. (oh ya, my hubby said that I could if he could watch, but I'm not into that, I dont want to do it for a "show") so a little word of advice, dont say you want to watch.

Answer 5

You should search your feeling and leave the sex part aside, if you want to be with your wife and another woman it's ok. that means that she needs a little more exhitement in her life and is a great thing that she is not cheating on you but she is inviting you to be a part of that. Now if you don't want to do it comunicate with her and explain your reasons she will understand =)

Answer 6

She is wanting to be with another woman and you want to know what to do????
How about if she asked if she could bring another man into the bedroom? Would you have to ask what to do then as well? She is basically looking for permission to cheat on you. Divorce her and NEVER have children with her.

Answer 7

Sit in the corner and watch until you feel jealous and then join in and screw the **** out of your wife and let the women just watch. If that is not your thing maybe just talk to your wife and tell her that you are not feeling the women on women thing.

Answer 8

Ask Her If You Can Join Or Atleast Watch, maybe Even Film & Post On The Web, Make A Killing!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (Make Sure Theres Alot of Lick Action & Double Sided Dildo Action!!!!)

Answer 9

Well This Is America,Either Watch,Leave,Or Join In.Good Luck,Good For You

Answer 10

Sadly, I think it is either i) just like any other human being, she may still care for you but not be "in love", i.e. that it is a woman is perhaps unorthodox to your experience of her but nevertheless secondary to that sense of things not being "right", or ii) an excuse. Sorry, just a personal opinion..

Answer 11

Tell her not to let the door hit her in the a@@ on her way out. I just don't understand these married couples that want to go be with someone of the same sex.