have u ever been cheated on ?

Question

I was cheated on by the love of my life, has it happened to you and how did you get over it, and are u still with them ?

Answer 1

Yes honey i have been cheated on by the man i have been with for 9 years, last year just before xmas i found out that he had been given a ******** by someone we both knew I hated this gir anyway. I was devastated, we talked and talked i shouted screamed cried non of that solved anything. I realised that i was not prepared to throw 9 years away for one stupid mistake so we are still together .
My advice to you is if you feel itis right to stay together then do so you have to do what feels right for you

good luck i really hope it works out for you x

Answer 2

I fell head over heals for this guy and he cheated on me after a month of being together. He actually cheated twice in the space of a week. Nothing hurts that deeply, I was devastated, especially when I found out who he cheated with. He owned up to it and kept telling me that he loved me and I was his soul mate, but how could I believe him? In the end I broke away because I knew this would rip us apart anyway if we stayed together. I could never trust him again. What hurt more was he just let me go without a fight, after everything he said.

Half a year on it still hurts. I always wonder if I made the right decision. Once a cheat always a cheat. It's so painful I wouldn't have survived a second time. He was probably better off single.

Answer 3

I too was cheated on. It was very devastating for my 2 boys and me. My husband and I were married for 9.5 years and he threw it all away for a woman that he is not even with today. Come to find out he had cheated on me in the past and I was not even aware of it. I will tell you this, it does get better. Looking back he did me a favor. I'm bruised, but I'm stronger. And you will be too. You have to be the type of person that does not tolerate cheating though. You deserve so much more. And believe me when I say that you will find the person that will think the world of you and only you, and would not dream of doing anything to hurt you in that way. Good Luck to you!!!!! ;-)

Answer 4

Going back to when i was 18 (while ago!!) My first b/f i was with him for a little over 3 years. I thought he was the one as you do when ur young and gullible.... But then one day it all changed. He wouldn't come round anymore, the sex stopped and it just went wrong. Then i descovered that he had been seeing someone else so i was naturally devastated.

I'm so glad though because then i wouldn't have met my now husband and i wouldn't have had his beautiful children. I moved on because i had to, im not angry anymore and yes it feels like you world has ended but there is life after a failed relationship but it does take time...

Don't go ou there thinking that all men are b******** have a great time and dont think about another relationship unti, u r truely over the last one. Treat is a learning curve, put it down to experience.

Draw a line underneath it and move on.. Life is far too short

Answer 5

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Answer 6

It really, really hurts eh? My husband cheated on me, repeatedly, really rubbed my nose in it too. At the time I was too ill to leave him. I tried to get over it, but he just went and did it again. Eventually I had to go. Once is okay, even if its an affair, not a one night stand, but I believe counselling is essential. A second time, that would be it for me. To be honest, if my current partner cheated on me, even once, I don't think I could get over it again. Its a question of respect, honour and love, I guess if they can do it to you, none of those truly apply. Each case is different. If it was a one off, and they're the love of your life, you have to figure if you would be ultimately happier staying, or leaving the relationship. If its more than once, you just won't ever feel secure in it.

Answer 7

Yes twice, but they were several years apart. My last girlfriend of 3 years, used all the general excuses that a woman would use. She told my friend's wife all these lies about me not trusting her, me not caring for her, it was a bad relationship... which everyone knew they were all lies, because I'm not like that. I think that you would have everyone on Yahoo answer yes to this. I got over it with time. Drinking, dating someone else, ... are unhealthy ways of getting over it. I excercise, read a lot(to learn), dwell on the situation at least for a few months. People say dwelling is not good, but it actually is good for a short period of time. Avoiding the situation is the absolute worst thing to do. I would never stay with a woman who has cheated on me, regardless of her excuse.

Answer 8

Yes I was cheated on by my ex husband. He put me through allot of cr@p so by the time I found out that he cheated I was so sick of him and all his bull. The marriage was over long before we divorced. This is the only reason it wasn't hard getting over finding out he cheated. 16 years later and he is still an @ss.He doesn't even bother with our daughter ever and tried to sue me because he did not want to pay child support. I'm remarried and so is he.

Answer 9

Yes. My hubby cheated on me after being together 16 years. He said it was curiousity. He was also the love of my life. I wondered why, if I was the love of his life, was he curious? I was always happy with just him.

After about 2 years of trying to work it out for the kids(on my part...he begged me to stay), we are still together and fairly happy. There are tough days and good days. If I did not have kids, however, I would have left him. No one needs/deserves the headache, worry, and sorrow that comes from being cheated on(except maybe those single woman who actively pursue married men...I hope there is a special place in hell for them).

Answer 10

I was cheated on my my fiance. It was terrible and hurt really bad but one silly mistake was not worth throwing away what we had. I loved him too much to let him go. It will take a long time to trust him fully again but i will eventually. But if you cant get ova it then the relationship will never work. You cant keep bringing up the past.