2006-07-09 12:17:01 · 14 answers · asked by alittle03 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He say the girl is his like best friend who he calls his sister. i have met her.
2006-07-09 12:29:18 · update #1
You either trust your husband or you don't.
If you trust him, don't make a big deal out of it.
If you don't, you've got some decisions to make.
My husband always trusted me when I used to go out drinking with male friends, and yes, I was worthy of trust. I'd trust my husband at church with another woman. Heck, if he had some reason to have to spend the night in a motel room with another woman, I'd still trust him....He's a very attractive guy and if he wanted to cheat on me, he's had plenty of opportunities. I'm often gone for weeks at a time.
Look, there IS such a thing as friends. Most of my friends are male -- I just get along better with guys. And not every guy is a horndog. I'm sure you know whether your husband is a horndog and whether he's trustworthy. For my money, I wouldn't think somebody would openly be taking someone to church as a cover. If your husband is generally a good guy, take him at face value.
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With respect to the propriety of your husband and another woman going to church...it depends on your culture and on your relationship with your husband. In my culture and my relationship, it wouldn't be a problem..
Of course, there's always people around with mischief in their heart and they may go to you or someone in your family and express their concern about appearances but remember, you and your husband aren't here on this earth to please them. God loves fellowship and harmony. So try to be friendly and try to be happy.
2006-07-09 18:30:08 · answer #1 · answered by Jess Wundring 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps it's okay if the other woman is his MOTHER!!!!
Honey, there is a reason they
say that a
Family Who Prays Together Stays Together--
this is the deepest part of our relationships with
our spouses, the part that stays when the looks, desire
and excitement go out the window, the part that keeps James Garner going to visit his wife in THE NOTEBOOK...so do what
you can, shift yourself to accomodate him if need be, and go to church together, sit together, sing together, and grow together!!!!
Love is the answer and Love is the key.
2006-07-09 19:48:47 · answer #2 · answered by susieque 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this is like a date. Plus, the people at church will view them as being "together". Going to church together is for families, etc.
2006-07-09 19:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by herbst01k23h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. Unless it's a family member or close family friend who you just didn't accompany as well once in a while. Hey, everyone who goes to church ain't innocent. Read the news.
2006-07-09 20:00:07 · answer #4 · answered by HelpOneAnother 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of Church did you say they were going to
2006-07-09 19:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX Bottom line......yes, if my husband wanted to go to church it will be with me. So many cheaters use church as a hide out. I'd go with him or atleast sit in the back pew and watch what's really going on. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-09 19:23:49 · answer #6 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very interesting.... why doesn't he want to go with you? and who is that woman? the question for you to find out and it should let you know what's going on there.
2006-07-09 19:20:58 · answer #7 · answered by FrozenBaCARdi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my eyes, YES.
I know a sneaky little couple who go to chuch together and then head for the closest motel, so watch out!!!! He's married and she's divorced.
2006-07-09 19:20:30 · answer #8 · answered by ashley j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only for business purposes and not more than the task at hand. Otherwise, He needs to be there with HIS family.
2006-07-09 19:26:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should join then on Sunday/or better yet sit a row behind them after they have been seated
2006-07-09 20:19:14 · answer #10 · answered by hrry_tws 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋