Husbands, Do you think your wife should be able to go out all night and not answer her cell phone or call to let you know what's going on and what have you done about it if they have?
Wives, Do you think it's ok for you to go out all night long after your husband asked you to come home and not call or answer the phone?
Men, What type of situation would that put you in and what would you need to do? Or what actions have you made that workedwell?
Woman, What would you expect from your husband if you were to do this? What would you want from them?
2006-07-09 11:51:05 · 23 answers · asked by Allen Elow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am married and when ever we go out alone....we also keep in touch w/ each other. I think that is neither party has anything to hid..then this wouldn't be a problem....if anyone male or female is avoiding their spouse while they are out..then 9 times out of 10, they are doing something that they shouldn't be...If this is happening to you...Stand your ground.
2006-07-09 12:04:29 · answer #1 · answered by SouthernKNC 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
As a wife I believe that God put your husband at the head of the family because as the person not ruled by emotions he is the one better suited for the task. I can go out with friends but there is a set time in which my husband thinks it is inappropriate for a woman to be out in the streets, especially a married woman, and I agree. If I should decide that I wear the boxers and can do what I want when I want I would suspect that I would not have a husband very long. What man wants a loose woman for a wife. I would teach my son to be wary of this kind of woman because you could find yourself on one the those talk shows trying to find out if you are the baby's father.
2006-07-09 19:12:06 · answer #2 · answered by Deborah M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A marriage should be based in trust. Both parties need to trust the other and be trustworthy themselves. Usually, if one is suspicious he or she is responding to the situation from the point of a guilty conscience. He or she thinks the other is up to no good because under the same circumstances they, themselves, would be up to no good. Did you ever see Being Danny Bonaduce? When Gretchen went out for a spa night that included perfectly innocent strippers, Danny called her, like, 500 times accusing her of everything in the book and it was totally innocent! Why did he do it? Because he was a cheater and he was judging the situation by his own actions.
There isn't anything wrong with spending time apart. In fact, it's good for you. Just because you're married doesn't mean you should be joined at the hip 24/7.
2006-07-09 18:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by misslabeled 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer: No, I don't think it appropriate for a wife to go out all evening, if her absence cannot be reasonable explained. Your question presumes she's out under suspicious circumstances not related to her work or family. It would put me in a situation of worry and fretting and a deep, anxious desire to have her sit down with me and tell me why? Where did you go? I would want a convincing response that assured me that it is not related to an affair or some other matter destructive to the marriage.
2006-07-09 19:17:50 · answer #4 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong with having a life of your own as long as you do it with regard and respect for your mate. So if she wants to go out, she should be allowed to but giving you a call a few times to let you know that she is ok would be a right and considerate thing to do.
2006-07-09 20:36:51 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have alot of respect for my husbands feelings. We give each other space to do the things we enjoy, but never would I do that to him. Thats almost mean spirited to not call and leave him to worry about me.
What would I expect from him if I actually did this? I probably wouldnt be married anymore and righfully so . Someone who would do this sure doesnt care much about the hubbys feelings, thats for sure.
2006-07-09 18:58:51 · answer #6 · answered by The Kings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not do such a thing. I have to much respect for our relationship.All night and not call neither of us would do such a thing. when we do go some where we call each other when we get there and we keep in touch every few hours and then let each other know when we would be headed for home.that is common courtesy. to do such a thing would cause a whole lot of yelling and bags put to the curb... good luck!!!
2006-07-09 19:07:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a secure adult trusting relationship, then you fully trust each other to not have to be on the cell phone leash. On the occasion i go out with my friends, i will call if only to say i am not coming home and see you in the morning. Likewise, if he is out with his friends, just call and let me know you are safe and all is well.
2006-07-09 19:43:21 · answer #8 · answered by candi girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No wife should go out and not answer her phone and not call, she's probably up to no good, find out and lay down the law
2006-07-09 18:56:52 · answer #9 · answered by Ineedabuckforsomething 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an issue of respect. I would never do that to my husband and I would never expect from him. Now there are times when we kindof need time any, but we both ALWAYS let eachother know when we are going to take time to ourselves. RESPECT!
2006-07-09 19:19:52 · answer #10 · answered by kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋