2006-07-09 11:43:51 · 32 answers · asked by JaMaHo 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Not a very pleasant thought, nightmare, Rosemarys Baby type!!!!
2006-07-09 11:46:47 · answer #1 · answered by GreatNeck 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes I did keep my baby despite of what had happened to me, all the problems that it gave me and all the advice that was given to me to have an abortion or to give it up for adoption which I both just couldn't do. I kept my baby and she is a wonderful beautiful sweet girl of already 10 years old and I have never regretted keeping her for a minute. I have been going through a lot when I was pregnant with her not knowing if I had made the right choice in keeping her and knowing that one day she would start asking me questions or that she might find out through others and what would be the consequences for my child and what if it would resemble the father would I be able to love my baby if it looked like the man who raped me. But everything started to change when I could feel her movements inside of me and when she was born and I held her in my arms I knew that I had done the right thing and that I would always love her no matter what and that she will always be my sweet little angel whatever the rest of the world may think about it eventhough at the same time I felt all the pain of what had happened again and hoped that she would never ever have to go through this.
I'm not saying here that everybody who has been raped should keep their baby. I can only talk for myself and for what I have decided. It's very personal and if there are girls or women who decide to have an abortion or to give the baby up for adoption I can fully understand that and I would never ever judge them because after you have been raped your life has been totally shaken upside down and you have to find away to pick up your life again and try to make the best of it and that is everything but easy especially when you find out that you are pregnant by the man who raped you. That gives even much more emotions.
2006-07-09 12:31:34 · answer #2 · answered by aysha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a very personal question. Your answer should be biased upon your own moral vales, your integrity and what YOU believe is right or wrong not the worlds.
If you have a new life in you and the circumstances are as you described, consider not killing the life, rather, give it to an adoption home.
None of us asked to come here, we did not get to pick which country we would be born in or to which parents under what circumstance we would come into this life.
The most horrifically deformed persons do not ask for someone to kill them and they live under a circumstance far worse than what a lot of us experience.
Forcing any one to do what they would not do is en excusable,
worse is to violate the scarcity of another individuals body. No male will ever be able to identify with that horrible experience that only a female can be subjected to. Hence he has no right to try and mitigate her response. Any one that does this horrible crime should forfeit their life.
2006-07-09 12:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That Is A Very Hard Qwestion. Its Not The Childs Fault. I am Against Obortion. Only If You Are Raped. But Still It Is Very Hard.
2006-07-09 11:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by mks 7-15-02 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I debated this once. Think about this.
If it is truely a criminal rape:
You would report it to the police -right?
You would go to the ER for a rape kit -right?
The rape kit includes a test for STD so you'd be protected -right?
Then here's the dumb part -you would not still be pregnant after the D&E.
If it was a rape by your "friend"
Is that really rape? I mean, either you report it as above or you know who the father is and you take action.
Guess what ?-- if the person committing the rape denied he did it you would -- Go to the ER and have a rape kit done to prove it! Wouldn't you? (see above)
Kind of blows the whole "rape" thing and pregnancy out of the water now.....doesn't it?!?
2006-07-09 11:52:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I was then yes I would probably keep it cause the baby did not ask to be concieved and it has nothing to do with the father being an azz
2006-07-09 17:42:40 · answer #6 · answered by iamkaymie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my girlfriend was raped and had a baby, I would put it for adoption right away. This is no joke.
2006-07-09 11:46:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if I could . It would be a hard decision to keep a baby that I know that it was against my will...
2006-07-09 11:49:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I don't believe in abortions. Especially if the baby was healthy.
2006-07-09 11:47:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It's not the baby's fault if the dad's mentally disturbed
2006-07-09 11:56:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋