fear of sex
2006-07-09 11:42:20 · 13 answers · asked by kat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am 28 and he is 36 yrs old and we have been together for about a yr.
2006-07-22 08:33:39 · update #1
Hmm...
I would say a good way is to talk about what the both of you want in this sexual curiousity. I find it a good thing to talk to your man about it. There is nothing wrong with it since you guys should be able to talk about practically anything with him. And talk about why exactly you are scared of sex.
And if you want to put sexual curiousity and teasingness together, it could lead to many things. It doesn't have to deal with the direct intercourse and could be things like foreplay or just teasing and making his arousal peak up for you. There are sure fired ways to go do this and it makes things interesting.
But sex is not supposed to be feared. Remember, it is when you make love with someone you love and cherish. If it is uncomfortable explain why. It is better to talk about it with your partner.
But the best of luck be with you. ^_^
2006-07-09 11:47:43 · answer #1 · answered by endlessly_waiting_in_the_rain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this same problem. I just talked to my husband about this and I let him know that I want to try some different out of the ordinary things and he said yeah and our sex life has been great ever since.
2006-07-09 19:26:11 · answer #2 · answered by bebe1028 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, enjoying your body and your sexuallity with YOUR husband is a blessing. You should not be afraid or ashamed of anything, as long as you both consent.
If he's only your "man" I would be a little cautios, 'cause love can easily be turned into lust if there is not enough sentimental intimacy.
2006-07-09 19:18:32 · answer #3 · answered by ashley j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know why you fear sex? You need to figure that out before you do more with your man.
2006-07-21 22:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by Padme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start slow with candle light and lotions get comfortable with that then slowly introduce other things like edibles and toys. go to an adult store together and just browse if something looke intresting buy it. The most important thing is to be comfortable with your body and know he thinks your sexy.
2006-07-18 19:53:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU HAVE TO BECOME COMFORTABLE WITH YOURSELF AND THE PERSON YOU ARE WITH BEFORE YOU OVERCOME YOUR FEARS, SO WHY DON'T YOU JUST START OUT WITH LITTLE THINGS TO GET THE FEAR OUT OF YOUR WAY AND THEN GO OWN ABOUT YOUR BUSINESS. GOOD LUCK
2006-07-21 19:57:35 · answer #6 · answered by Babygirl86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Why are you afraid of sex? How old is he? Perhaps you should wait until you are MARRIED before you have sex.
2006-07-22 13:17:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try one new thing at a time...you never know if you like something unless you try it!
2006-07-09 18:45:11 · answer #8 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your still in school please don't try it...You can still be happy and in love and have just as much fun with out sex
2006-07-09 19:12:35 · answer #9 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him?? i dont know, i use to be really shy but time helped> try stuff slowly!!!! it does not ahppen in one night
2006-07-21 14:36:18 · answer #10 · answered by dark_rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋