2006-07-09 11:38:09 · 23 answers · asked by dani jace 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
By being herself!
You don't have to be skinny and down right drop dead gorgeous to get a guy!!You don't want a one night stand you want a relationship!!If the guys your going for don't like the way you are then your going for the wrong type of guy!!Find someone who likes you for you not how you look!!And I bet you are very pretty and just don't know it yet!
2006-07-17 04:56:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who has filled this perfect nonsense in your pretty head. I will just tell you a true story. A Hollywood heroine(I would not reveal her name if for nothing then for guarding her sensibilities looking to what she had to pass through) was on a visit to Africa and was invited as a Guest of Honour at a party of a Zule chief. Throughout the party and the dinner that followed the eyes of theChief were rivetted on her. She was embarassed but at the same time delighted that her beauty has made such a n impression on even a t ribal lord. She fell down from the high pedestal when the Chief said ,while parting,'Madam, if only you were black and a little fat Oh, how ravishing you would have looked.!" So don't despair.Know the famous Shakespearan dictum,' a niger sees in the eyes of his beloved the beaury of Helin"(Thank god, Shakespear was not aware of the reaction of black tribal chief then). No No I am not asking you to seek a black boy . He may be brother to that tribal chief.Beaury lies in the eyes of the beloved, Even Laila in the famous Laila-Majnu tale was not a beauty queen but she was in the eyes of Majnu who loved her so much that their love has entered the traditional folklore. Let me also tell you the experiences of one of my friends who is a marriage counsellor. He says that young boys may like pretty girls to get about with but not as life partners. For that they desire to have the girls next door. Well I almost gave you address of that boy who would want you!
2006-07-09 18:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by Prabhakar G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking about relationships in terms of looks. Start looking for guys that have great personalities, that do not judge humans on a purely physical basis.
If anything join the military, there is a very high male population especially in Germany and other outlying bases.
2006-07-09 18:43:02 · answer #3 · answered by James H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be kind and affectionate to guys who are not extremely muscular and not all that handsome, but who have the kind of good qualities that you want in a man. There is someone for everyone, but you have to keep an open mind and look at the ugly ducklings too.
2006-07-09 19:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by blorgo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I saw most of the answers and they are mostly true. If you want a great long term relationship, you have to bring out your personality and not be shy and working out can help. But if you are looking for one-night stand type of deal, your gonna need to loose weight by lipo or working out, get a boob job or go on extreme makeovers.
2006-07-09 18:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by lion847 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are usually attracted to people who are a close match in looks, so if it's really true that you're not all that pretty, or even if you are, just look for a guy with a great personality and you'll do fine.
2006-07-09 18:43:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She would first need to be happy and confident with herself. People tend to gravitate towards those that are fun to be around, happy, intelligent, witty and have other admirable traits, like candystripe or other volunteer work. Be a leader, not a follower.
2006-07-09 18:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by peter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all guys want skinny girls and it depends on the guy what HE thinks pretty is. just because she isn't pretty to one guy doesn't mean she's ugly to all guys. it just takes a while for people to find their match. i'm way over weight and my husband thinks i'm georgous even though i don't see it. the one thing that is guaranteed is confedence. be confedent and you are sure to get a guy.
2006-07-09 18:46:36 · answer #8 · answered by Demona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel your not healthy and your stomach is just very embaressing try working out dont starve yourself and your personality is what a lot of guys are looking for and i bet some guy out ther thinks your the most beautiful because your personality describes it all
2006-07-09 19:19:45 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if someone can't accept you for who you are then you don't need them If your uncomfortable with the way you look then exercise change your hair sometimes little things make a diffrence I am a big girl myself and I have a guy who women go nuts for guess I am lucky but he loves me for whats inside not for how I look
2006-07-09 18:43:39 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋