I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now i love her and i know she loves me but since she's started university she's been getting more and more distant she eventually told me she dosent want to be attached to anybody right now but i truly beleive she is my soul mate and she has agreed with me about this. The last year we've only seen each other in between months at a time and it's been almost 3 months now we talked 3 weeks ago everything was fine she told me she had to go and would call me back in 10 minutes, and i havent heard from her since!!Ppl have told me they seen her at the mall so i know she's not dead but why would she do this??
her birthday and our anniversary were both next week! Please help me however you can i cant lose this girl i love her more than anything.
2006-07-09 11:27:54 · 7 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to talk to her and she how she feels before jumping to any conclusions. Maybe it is just that she doesn't want any distractions right now. And if it turns out that she doesn't want to bee with you anymore than tell her that you love her,BUT let her go. If your meant to be together, it will happen. If you don't let her go and that is what she wants then you will wind up making her hate you. I don't think you would want that. Better to have as a friend sometimes than nothing at all.
2006-07-09 11:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by Jeannie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't know of any of my friends who went out before College that are still together. Something that happens when you go away to school and you become a very different person. Almost everyone I know changed in someway or another. Sometimes people just drift apart after High School. I reccomend moving on, if was meant to be it will be.
2006-07-09 18:40:07 · answer #2 · answered by Sherrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... if y'all went out for 3 years, then maybe she was expecting you to pop the question and got tired of waiting. At this point, I'd say that you're running out of options and should go for broke.
Try to meet with her personally and tell her you love her more than anything. Tell her that you want to get back together, but if she wants to end it, at least have the decency to let you know. Good luck, man!
2006-07-09 18:37:05 · answer #3 · answered by Baron Hausenpheffer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the if you love something, set it free quote? It's like that. Let her have her freedom for awhile, if ya'll belong together she'll be back. Otherwise, she's already gone.
2006-07-09 18:33:17 · answer #4 · answered by chzymnky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, you have to let something go and set it free, if it comes back to you it is yours. Give her some space, let her call you when she wants to talk to you. Hope it works out.
2006-07-09 18:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to have to let her go. . . .Be good to yourself and find someone who WANTS to be with you. You don't want to be with someone who's not crazy about you, do you?
2006-07-09 18:31:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably too late, sorry
2006-07-09 18:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by tspbrady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋