MY husband has a page on MYSPACE.COM.....?

Question

he just got this account on myspace.com and i got mad cuz i told him he doesnt need a messanger to find new friends...he said he just want to see if he can catch some old friends...YEAH RIGHT im not stupid. The world have a page on myspace that site is full of trouble plus i saw his ex girl has one and other bi@#@# he knew.
im very jealous AM I RIGHT?

I ASKED HIM to delete the account he said yeah but he didn't do it yet. i dont' need this. he should just think about his kids wife and couple of closedfriends he has....if he didnt look for old friends before thats mean he didnt care so why start now? cuz he is deployed and bored?

i am not saying he cant HAVE FRIENDS. I AMSAYING THAT HE SHOULD HAVE LOOKED FOR THEM EVEN NEFORE THE MARRIAGE HE SHOULDN'T START NOW. MYSPACE IS WACK. IS NOT THE WAY TO CONTACT PEOPLE...FOR GOOD.

MY HUSBAND IS NOT HERE WITH ME HE IS DEPLOYED

YEAH BUT DO U THINK IS FEAR ME HERE BY MYSELF WITH 2 BABIES AND HIM BULLS@##@#g online?

Answer 1

I understand that you are upset but you need to calm down a bit. He is in a war zone. He is not cheating on you. He does not need you yelling at him and stressing him out. He needs to keep his mind on staying safe and getting back home to you and the kids. My husband is also deployed and also has a MySpace page. He has ex girlfriends on his too but I trust him. He is calling me with his spare moments and emailing me, not them. SO I don't worry. He is coming home to me. If you have a solid marriage, then look for ways ot keep him busy while he is there so that he doesn't need MySpace rather than just telling him not to have one.

Answer 2

My husband just got a page on myspace yesterday, but I helped him. I have no problem with him being on there because I trust him...but that's my life! Do you not trust your husband? Men have to have time away from us and the kids the same way we have to have tiem away from them! It's only fair...even if going on myspace for an hour is the way he does it. You have to give him room. I don't think it's right to make him delete his account...he should have a certain amount of privacy the same as you should.
If you are truly uncertain about his motives then suggest that he delete his current profile and you two start one together(for the whole family)! If he says no then I would watch him very closely!

Answer 3

You know, if you tried, you could be a little more controlling and intrusive- then you could push him all the way away from you, and he would start having an affair. That is what you are trying to do, isn’t it?

Gheeze! Wise up! Give him some breathing room – if he is going to cheat on you – Then he is! It’s too late now! The time to prevent affairs is months or years before they happen. You do it with love, not with browbeating him! The harder you push him, the faster and more he is going to do it! I’ve only see two messages from you and I know I’d divorce you! People (including your husband) need space and privacy. You cannot decide that he should only have just you and a few close friends (friends probably chosen by you!). He decides how many friends he wants and needs. Do you really think he just going to just fantasize about just you for the rest of your lives? What an ego you have lady! If you stay married- When you are in your 40’s-50’s 60’s you will be pushing him to fantasize about other women to improve your sex life!

Answer 4

I think you're being a bit too jealous/overprotective. Just because his ex and that other person have pages on MySpace, that doesn't necessarily mean he's talking to them. Unless you have good reason to believe he's doing things he shouldn't be, then you should let him be. If you're still wary, you can check his history and cookies to see if he's doing anything shady. If you're really uncomfortable with him using the site, make sure he knows how you feel, and make him sit down, with you there, and cancel the account. If he really loves you, he should respect your wishes. Tell him if he’s bored, he can use this site instead of MySpace. It’s more interesting anyway.

Answer 5

Ok.........here's the deal. I have a page on myspace.com and so does my husband. I have it to find old friends and so does he. If he is going to meet some girl off the computer like that then he is not worth your time or the pain he is causing you from being jealous. Also there must be some underlying issues going on in your marriage that you are not disclosing. Be truthful if you want accurate advice from people.

Answer 6

i can see why you are upset...my space is a place for hooking up most of the time.i don't see you being controlling just concerned. men and women can be naive at times and get in to the wrong thing . for people to say he married you what are you worried about is wrong, now a days just be cause a guy marries you doesn't mean he won't cheat or wonder... not to say your hubby is doing that but, it is not a good place i agree. just try and reason with him...if he continues keep and eye on him when he is on ask him for the pass word if he is not hiding anything then he won't mind giving it to you....

Answer 7

You have the right to ask him to delete his acc. from myspace.com. You're his wife.

He's a married man, he doesn't need to even worry about having an account there. He needs to worry about his family.

Answer 8

has been my experience that myspace and chat rooms lead to trouble when they interfere with a relationship. i would be ticked off too. in fact i left the guy that put the internet before me and his family. Good luck

Answer 9

What does he do if you sit next to him while he's on? My partner and I share a Myspace page, see if he'll let you be a part of it. If he gets mad or refuses to let you see what he's doing, then I'd be suspicious.

Answer 10

Ok everybody in the world has a myspace.com including me... u want me to find out if hes cheating Ill help you out... Im a MARRIED cutie and Im totally in love with my hubby.... im me at [e-mail] and I'll help you out.... I promise.