Feminazi with domestic violence?

Question

I have been asking all sorts of questions to women and men. A lot of men stand up for women, bravo. A lot of women give good unbiased answers. Lets just assume for a minute that I have been to a DV class for men. Well what I found was that none of the 12 men in the group many in there 40's had ever been to jail. None of these men hit women either. I will give a few examples, one guy broke dishes, another punched a wall, another threw a cell phone at his drunk wife, another blocked a doorway, another called his wife a ***** and flipped her off in public. These men lost job's gained an arrest record had to do these classes and for what because they got angry, most did not even hurt anyone. So my question is why won't these so called feminazi women take blame for choosing this guy, take some part in blame for returning for more blackeyes, or secret beatings. I suspect that they want to put all the blame squarely on the big strong brute man. Women have to choose too. Any though

Answer 1

As a woman who has been through domestic violence I can say that at the time of abuse I did take the blame and that is why I stayed. I am not a man hating woman .my husband threatened my life and he took the life of our unborn child he almost took mine before I left. I have to live with that my whole life. SO please don't group all women the same. Some men are not what they seem. My husband never once hit me or raised his voice or was jealous before we got married. It has taken me years of counseling and months of anger management myself to not make the mistake of going through that again. In my work I teach women to deal with the decisions they made whether they go back or leave. Now a days it is not easy for a man to cause harm, and yes some people men/women abuse it. But not all. I just wanted you to understand that.If you have never been through it, you will never understand what you want to know. Good luck

Answer 2

Let me put this into perspective for you, BUB.. female.. 5'2" tall, 110 pounds.. male.. 6'2" tall, 200 pounds.. male DEMANDS a beer and DEMANDS the female drop what she is doing [which is cooking HIS supper] and bring him a beer when his legs work just fine.. She tells him she can't leave the sauce just then or it will burn.. what does the male do? He storms into the kitchen and smacks her across the room when he could have just said.. oh, ok.. and gotten his own freakin beer.. now answer this for me.. given this situation and the sizes involved.. who do YOU think would come out on top? and in WHAT way can that female take any blame for that punch? An abusive man goes about the abuse very cleverly.. first he separates that woman from her friends and family.. he works on her and works on her.. verbally.. until she has NO confidence and NO self respect and NO self assurance left.. THEN he starts hitting her.... why?? He tells her she brings it on herself.. He tells her if SHE were a better wife, housekeeper, listener, cook.. whatever.. then HE would not HAVE to hit her. Now you tell me how any of that is right? These women have been carefully programmed to be physically terrified of even TRYING to leave .. for fear of being killed.. literally. So you tell me how you can possibly blame a woman for a male [because he is NOT a man] who is such a coward and such a low life that he thinks it is FINE to hit someone.. anyone.. but especially the one person he is supposed to be the most protective of. Tell me that and then we can have an intelligent discussion on the subject.

Answer 3

I believe that women have a percent of guilt in cases such as you describe. Face it we all know how to push our man's buttons when we are mad about something and want him to be mad too. We use the police to further our own agenda. It's a woman way of wearing the pants in the family. The feminist movement has not been kind to women. It set out to make girlfriends of our men and to punish him when he doesn't act like a girl. They told us we can have it all which is impossible. Women are being taught that we are the same as man and should be expected to be treated as such. But when they treat us like they would a man we holla abuse. I think it is about time men take back the control of their lives and families. Don't marry a woman who wants to marry her girlfriend with a penis. Leave out on the streets where you met them.

Answer 4

Shall I get out the violin and play for you? Men should be able to control their anger and not resort to violence of any sort including those mentioned by you. Walk away!!

Answer 5

Way off base Mr. Domestic Violence. There is no justification for it at all ever!

Answer 6

it is stupid that women do not usually get in trouble but that is the society we live in. there are women that do abuse but unfortunately the number of men that do it is double than women