There is this guy that I work with that I have been talking too for about 2 mths and we have not had sex yet but it is just a matter of time he is 20 and I am 21. He is so sweet and really passionate and an overall good person. I am falling for him even though I didn't want to and I want him. He has a girlfriend of 4 years and she is 17 I think that they are doin okay but not all that good because we talk everyday a few times a day and he is very into me. I wasn't planning on me wanting to be with him, we were friends and now I want to be his girlfriend. I know he loves his girlfriend but he is not inlove with her and she is not the one for him and he knows it but he is not letting go. I need some pointers as to how I can take him from her. btw I don't know her
2006-07-09 10:44:40 · 10 answers · asked by GeAuX tIgErS!!!!!!!!!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
to doubled254: I am a girl. LOL
2006-07-09 10:59:22 · update #1
whats the rush ? if she's not the one and YOU are than wait .Whats for you will always be for you...! It doesn't sound like your in love yet so stop lusting and be patient. And if he will get with you before ending it with her than he's just out for the sex .After the newness wears off back to the drawing board!
2006-07-09 10:54:56 · answer #1 · answered by sexyspiritlove 1 · 8⤊ 1⤋
Don'tdo this .. It's not right.. If he wants to break up with her to be with you then let him do it.. Dont get involved in their relationship.And you should also stay away from him since he already has a gf.. you cant just make them break up and forget their 4 year relationship.. If he doesnt love her anymore then he first will break up with her .. But for god's sake dont get more involved already.. show some respect to his girlfriend.. they have been 4 years together and he only knows for how long.. let him decide and dont do anything..
2006-07-09 17:51:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
All is fair in Love and War. Make your play, take him away somewhere for a spell and give it your best shot. Be a hunny.
Tell him what you want, then give him time away from you. He needs to miss you and realize that you are missing from his life and needs to get it back. If he doesn't or wusses out then he was weak and not what you need in your life.
2006-07-09 17:55:31 · answer #3 · answered by ZIAGACITY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient. If you think their relationship is about to fail, then it's just a matter of time before you can "have him." Just don't try to get him to cheat on her now. If he does cheat on her with you, then he can't be trusted...even if you do finally "get him." Once a cheater, always a cheater.
2006-07-09 17:50:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to take him away. Just make him be a man and tell his girlfriend that he doesn't want to be with her anymore.
2006-07-09 17:50:28 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you steal him away that means he can be stolen. So be prepared to have him stolen from you, also His girlfriend was 13 when they got together? Creepy.
2006-07-09 17:54:17 · answer #6 · answered by jgunslingerj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, he's not gay. A straight man will not leave his straight girlfriend in a stable relationship for a gay man in a non-existant relationship. Come on.
2006-07-09 17:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by doubled254 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u are sooo freaking mean....u gonna hurt his gf big time...and it doesnt matter if u guys are "talking" for lik 2 months!!he might only think of you as a friend...
2006-07-09 17:54:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's not a football. He can't be "taken" from someone else. Either he'll stay with her, or go to you, or try to play you both.
2006-07-09 17:49:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do that, Im single and you would forget all about him if you was with me.
2006-07-09 17:51:48 · answer #10 · answered by Josh S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋