2006-07-09 10:18:50 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dump her. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
2006-07-09 10:20:00 · answer #1 · answered by wild1handy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are very difficult from someone with very much experience if you have very deep feelings for this girl communication is your best advise Talk to her and tell her your feelings let her know she hurt you ask her how she feels if she is serious about the relationship. This is a two way street and each partner has to be willing to give 100 % if one partner is not then it will never work. Discuss your problems and if you can't find an agreeable solution together than it is best you go opposite directions to find the love and respect you both need. Remember relationship without communication will never last be open and honest with her.
2006-07-09 10:29:42 · answer #2 · answered by frogmatic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends. How much do you love her? Why did she cheat? How long have you been together? Remember everyone makes mistakes. If you truely love this person and she loves you then maybe its worth fixing. As your girlfriend she is not commited to being faithful there are no vows and it is not a sin. Maybe you need to make a comitment to this person and let her know how you feel. If you want to spend the rest of your life with her then she should know that and then if she stills wants to explore then let go.
2006-07-09 10:25:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new girlfriend, sorry to say it but she must not of care about ya'll relationship if she stepped out like that. she knew what she was doing when she did it. If you love her it may take a while to let the heart heal but it will. find some one whom has the same respect for you as you do them. Too many times we forgive the ones that hurt us just to be hurt again. We all have that someone special out there just waiting to be found., that will not brake the most important part of a relationship( trust.)move on and find the one who really loves you .
2006-07-09 10:27:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave now trust me u dont want to stick around once a cheater always a cheater.If u stay you are only going to hurt urself down the road.Even after the sorrys and the i love u's still stay away.If someone really cares about u they would never hurt u physically or mentally.
2006-07-09 10:25:47 · answer #5 · answered by flip4prez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is a good reason to cheat on someone. Either she does not care about you, or she doesn't take your relationship seriously.
I do not recommend to try and stay with her, since it will always be a subject for fights, and you will always fear she'll do it again. And you'll start to paranoïd whenever she's late, or not answering your calls, etc...
2006-07-09 10:22:49 · answer #6 · answered by Lord Eihwaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should confront her. Ask her why she did it. Then you can tell her, that you guys can't be together anymore because of what she did. But if you still want to be together, then you have to take a break. Tell her that you want her to take some time-out to think about what she did. And be sure to say that you still want to be with her, but your relationship depends on her choice. You should be sure if she really wants to be with you, and not cheat on you again.
2006-07-09 10:28:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what you want. Remember, once a cheat, always a cheat. What's to say she won't do it again?
2006-07-09 10:21:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the cheat.
2006-07-09 10:22:22 · answer #9 · answered by underdunk75 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get checked for STD's, Don't ever sleep with her again, please. Don't sleep with anyone till you have your tests back. And then See if the next gal will agree to be tested before you get intimate. But still, always wear a condom. You could be a carrier or she could, and you wouldn't know it unless you were tested. Carriers don't usually break out with herpes, or other bad stuff.
2006-07-09 10:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will always cheat now.. if you take her back she will think that its ok to cheat.. so dump her!
2006-07-09 10:23:23 · answer #11 · answered by girlyjunk1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋