i want a private investigator too spy on my hubby monitor his every move when he is at work.what time he goes and how long for follow him where he goes and where they meet i know he is having sex with her i read a txt msg saying that he wants too meet up with her for sex.iam willing to pay what ever cant you find a private investigatot for me Ihave talked too him but he just ignores it and he is not bother what i say or how i fel and he is very abusivs iam scared too say any thing i have 4 children with him.
2006-07-09 10:17:35 · 8 answers · asked by parveen 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
Search the web for private investigators in your area. I would get you and your kids away from that sorry piece of crap... I will pray for you.
2006-07-09 10:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by linzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiring a private investigator will certainly help you confirm what, where, when, and with whom he may be involved with. However, before you go spending money on an investigation, seek the advise of a lawyer. Depending on the laws of where you reside, the information acquired by a private investigator may only satisfy your curiosity and not help build your probable divorce case. Your concern should be for your safety and that of your children. I'd rather see you spend you money on getting out of an abusive relationship and home and into a new safer surroundings.
2006-07-15 03:40:14 · answer #2 · answered by pimag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's abusive with you talk to the police, if he hits you one day he'll hit your children and if you don't tell the police you will only regret it. I know that this must scare you but there are a lot of women's groups that supply hostels and even small houses for women that have been abused. The police can put a restrictive order on him and if he comes near you he will get baned up. There are groups that can help you get back on your feet, move you to a different area, stop him from seeing the children, help you get a job, give you therapy. I know it will be hard but if you don't do it now you will never do it!
Good luck and take care!
P.S. If he's abusive and bullies you, whether it be verbal or physical I wouldn't care if he was cheating! Get a divorce and get on with your life, you deserve it!
2006-07-09 18:53:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u already know in ur heart that he is cheating then why pay someone 2 tell u what u already know??
kick him 2 the kerb, tell him its over between u both but still let him b a father 2 his kids. b strong, get support from friends and family. u deserve someone who treats u with RESPECT! not someone who treats u and talks 2 u like ur second best. send him packing 2 his mistress .
please dont stay with him cause ur scared or u will never b happy.
good luck :)
2006-07-09 10:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by missilibi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can find a private investigator anywhere but girl if he is that abusive don't leave him until you get your revenge tell him that your up for some kinky sex and then tie his @ss up! get some bar soap put it in a sock and then snap on his abusive @ss and beat the s*** out of him and tell him that if he ever puts he's hands on you again you will KILL HIM!
2006-07-09 10:29:29 · answer #5 · answered by leo29sexy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What State do you live in ?
2006-07-09 10:21:29 · answer #6 · answered by Jerry S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save your money for a divorce lawyer.
2006-07-16 08:41:41 · answer #7 · answered by RunSueRun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that ought to need to be YOUR moms call, no longer YOURS. talk at the same time with your FATHER about YOUR difficulty. except THAT it may well be as a lot as your mom, you ought to HATE TO LOSE both mum and dad FOR INTERFERING, EXSPECIALLY even as possibly there is no longer something TO INTERFER.
2016-11-06 02:49:22 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋