Since a was a little girl i used to be quiet, lonely and very calm, i also continue today as well at my 18, is this normal? i have very few friends and i think i am not cool if i keep being calm and with strong principles like i am 30, i am a very closed person and every detail for me is secret, only some people i trust know some things about my personal life but others are curious to find out my character but they never succeed to find that, am i strange?
2006-07-09 10:06:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
no ure not strange ure unique and rare and dont worry u hav plenty of friends like me and my sister! just try and be more open!
2006-07-09 10:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by missvixenx 2 · 7⤊ 3⤋
im just 15 so i may not know everything, but i dont find you strange. just a little secluded.
there is nothing wrong with being quiet...its just your personality. i would rather have very few good friends than have 20 friends that cant remember my name half the time.
if i was you though, i would work on loosening up. you got plenty of time to act 30 (like when you become 30)...for now, just relax.
2006-07-09 17:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your not strange!! You're just closed off. It's okay to keep your guard up, but at the same time you can be scaring away some good friends. just know for yourself who's suppose to be in your life for a season or for a life time. And if somebody ever calls you strange let me know and I'll put them in their place. Be positive and stay strong!
2006-07-09 17:28:56 · answer #3 · answered by larissa b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem very secretive, im guessing you have problems with trusting people. Try being more outgoing and trusting people. What's the worst that can happen? Try first trusting one person, i find that after you have trust in at least one person it makes it easier to trust others and be a bit more out going.
2006-07-09 17:26:33 · answer #4 · answered by dogluver8906 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you are strange. Hell, join the party with us think that we are strange, becasue of how we express ourselves, or how we like to have associates, but claim no friends, and like to really be by yourself. Someone like myself, i don't really trust anyone. I feel the same way that you do as for every detail is a secret. Well everyone that I do be around, think that i'm strange. get use to it and be yourself. maybe this is the way it is suppose to be for people like us. i'm happy, "what about yourself?"
2006-07-09 17:33:33 · answer #5 · answered by koodie64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not. Some people are naturally inverted, as others are naturally extroverted. There's nothing wrong with you, it's just your personality. As long as you have friends that you feel you can turn to when times do get bad and you can tell them private matters, you're not abnormal at all.
2006-07-09 17:10:46 · answer #6 · answered by j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, you're not strange. And you're not alone. I'm the
same way. We are what I like to refer to as "diamond people",
since the diamond is rare and precious, truly a great treasure.
2006-07-09 17:21:53 · answer #7 · answered by Dudette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat being a quiet, reserved person. Watch Jerry Springer if you ever think you should be more open--those people will make you glad you are who you are.
2006-07-09 17:15:16 · answer #8 · answered by Princess Toadstoolie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it can be a good thing to be so reserved. You don't need to trust everyone. I am a very cautious person too. It is okay.
2006-07-09 17:11:06 · answer #9 · answered by kittykat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not strange, you're just rare. Don't worry about it. If you want more friends, then make some.
2006-07-09 17:09:31 · answer #10 · answered by ndtaya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not particulary strange. You enjoy your privacy, as many people do.
2006-07-09 17:11:43 · answer #11 · answered by lighthouse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋