i have the girls mobil number but i dont no her name she lives in halifax.They meet at 12.30 During the Day this is what i Found out Buy checking MY HUBBYS mOBIL.mY HUBBY GOES FROM wORK place too have sex with her but i dont no where they meet plz can you Help Me.
2006-07-09 09:52:19 · 12 answers · asked by parveen 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
I would hire a private investigator... Talk to him about it...
2006-07-09 09:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by linzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best to get your own evidence first. A private eye would cost plenty so be quite sure of his movements if he's seeing this lass most working days and then follow him. If he sets off with her to somewhere to make the two-backed beast, watch points and then confront him. You need some decent evidence otherwise they'll deny it. Is your marriage otherwise sound or not? Either way, you need to sit down and talk things out (when things have calmed down a bit). In the long term you'll need to jointly decide whether you want your marriage to continue and that might take counselling as there's obviously some issues here which need exploring. Good luck and take care.
2006-07-09 10:11:25 · answer #2 · answered by flicker1966 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't hire a private investigator, then try to find a way to catch him yourself.
Most likely, if he really is cheating, then it could be hard to get him to admit to it and he might clam up and change his routine.
You can take photos of them meeting together (I know that sounds crass and very painful) but it would help in divorce proceedings if that is something you would intend to do.
Before you accuse him and cause issues, I would find out if he is in fact meeting with someone to have sex.
If you have no way of of transportation for yourself, perhaps you may be able to try public transportation if that is available or ask a close friend of family member to help you. It's best to remain calm and mature in the matter. There is nothing wrong with at least trying to see if that is what he is doing before you accuse him to his face. There isn't much he can do if you catch him in the act or you have photo proof of this affair (if he's having one).
2006-07-09 10:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by royal_crown78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very sad and sordid.
TALK to your husband about it.
I'm not surprised that any man called "Hubby" wants a bit more excitement!!
Sorry.....but if he's having an affair, there's probably a reason.
Think about having some counselling together, with Relate.
Or wait for him in the most seductive outfit you can and win him back.
2006-07-09 10:13:48 · answer #4 · answered by Suzita 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a happy life in Todmorden.
2016-03-26 22:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide what you want the outcome of this to be. If he is definitely cheating do you want to stay with him if he finishes the affair ? If so, could you be at his work and follow him when he leaves to meet her and then confront them both ?
You definitely need to sit down and talk this over with him and find out what his future intentions are and then decide from that whether you want to stay together and try to recover from this or whether you should separate.
My heart goes out to you, you must be feeling terrible now. I hope it all works out for you.
2006-07-09 10:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by Mum.of.twins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have two good facts that should solve your problem. 1. Life is too short. 2. there are actually good men out there. keep him around until you find someone to take his place. Everything takes time so be patient. you deserve better. If you have children, tough out and leave it in Gods hands
2006-07-09 10:23:15 · answer #7 · answered by k.trapp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang around in Georges square (where kfc is) in disguise and wait to see what he gets up to. You could be inconspicuous, pretend to be waiting for a bus and watch from a distance. If that sounds too risky, get someone to do it for you.
Viva la Tod!
2006-07-09 10:15:54 · answer #8 · answered by fiend_indeed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you and a mate follow him? If he is cheating on you follow him to house and wait 5 mins then you go to front door and your mate go to back door and demand him to come out then you'll know one way or another if its true and if so who she is etc. good luck
2006-07-11 11:52:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i had the number of my hubbys mistress, i would be ringing her and throwing him out.
2006-07-15 00:10:50 · answer #10 · answered by lonely as a cloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know they are having sex and if you think he is cheating on you then you should talk to him and if he can't explain everything then I dunno what you should do, I was going to say divorce him but that is a very big decision so I think you should just talk to him...
2006-07-09 10:03:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋