i saw my friends married mother with another women kissing and feeling each other up sould i tell my friend or just let it ride.? i dont want to have anything to do with there problem but sould i say something becuase i would want her to tell me.
2006-07-09 09:49:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would tell. I would probably say, "I think your mom is gay." But that's just me.
Too bad she's married. Yep, too bad.
2006-07-09 10:25:05 · answer #1 · answered by BigPappa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no personal gain or loss by telling this to your friend or anyone else for that fact. What can be done about anything in the past? I personally believe that people should mind their own business and not try to stir up trouble with someone elses. I realize you are only wanting to be a true friend to your friend... however.. in the end it may hurt alot of people, change alot of lives and total chaos. But the choice is yours. Tell or not tell. Good Luck.
2006-07-09 17:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The dynamics in each relationship are differant. You may want to know if it was reversed, your friend may not. Sometimes its best to file that kind of stuff away and let it go.As an option you could go to the mother and tell her what you saw and let her know you won't say anything but she should be more careful and considerate of her family and the possibility of hurting them
2006-07-09 16:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fact is your friend probably knows or refuses to understand it. If you are a true friend let them bring up the issue its not you place to get involved with their family issues. You friendship is not based on that
2006-07-09 18:19:38 · answer #4 · answered by justathought 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I'd tell her. Or maybe you should confront her mom, and try and convince her to stop... okay that's... ugh. I'm not a homophobic ok? I just think any kind of cheating is wrong.
2006-07-09 17:09:38 · answer #5 · answered by TheONEJay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to watch too. Actually its not your concern. Stay out of it.
For you there is nothing to be gained and and lots to lose by becoming a gossip.
2006-07-09 16:56:20 · answer #6 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything. and if she ever does find out just be there for her. don't ever tell her you knew. it would be very humiliating for her, I'm sure. the thing about adults? we are human. don't put us on a pedestal, we will occasionally let you down.
2006-07-09 16:57:52 · answer #7 · answered by j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't say anything to her she may think you are lying especially if you dont have proof like pictures or a place where you always seem to see them at if its meant for her to know it will come out sooner or later
2006-07-09 17:04:29 · answer #8 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No....let it go. This doesn't concern you, and it's not worth losing a friendship over. It'll all come out in time. Best of luck to you........
2006-07-09 17:04:26 · answer #9 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF SHE IS YOUR BEST FRIEND YOU ARE NOT INTERFERING IN HER LIFE. DO WHAT YOU THINK IS BEST FOR HER. IF YOU THINK IT WILL HURT HER THEN LET HER FIND OUT ON HER OWN. IF NOT THEN TELL HER. BUT WHATEVER THE CASE MAYBE MAKE SURE YOU ARE THER TO BE HER CRYING SHOULDER IF NEED BE.
2006-07-09 17:54:26 · answer #10 · answered by Babygirl86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋