-he says i am a distraction.
- he has been avoiding me.
- he says hes busier then he usually is.
-we aren't having fun like we used to.
*somebody help me!!!
2006-07-09 09:42:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
Doesn't sound too good to me...unfortunately. He might be trying to break up with you and has no idea how to say it directly.
2006-07-09 09:46:15 · answer #1 · answered by Mana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says you're a distraction, if he's been avoiding you, if he says he's busier than he usually is, and you're not having fun the way you used to...he's found someone else and he doesn't want to be with you anymore, but he doesn't want to be the one to break it off. He wants you to end it so he can be blameless. Do yourself a big, huge, gargantuan favor. The next time you are together--and you may have to lure him over there, unsuspecting--make his *** break up with you. Tell him to be a man about it, to tell you it's just plain over if that's the way he feels, because regardless of what you've had together it's wrong to leave you hanging when you could be out there with another boyfriend who doesn't consider you a "distraction", who doesn't avoid you and who isn't all of a sudden a lot busier than he used to be. Stay strong and bust his balls, girl!!!! Good luck, whether or not you follow my advice.
2006-07-09 09:56:29 · answer #2 · answered by Princess Toadstoolie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems to me that your boyfriend is experiencing tough times... if you two were together before, and ha a pretty good relationship, then there's most likely nothing wrong. It might be fmaily problems...but definitely something personal~your boyfriend wouldn't just start freaking out at you like that....see if you can get him by himself, somewhere where the mood and atmosphere is calm, and tell him how you feel about it...DONT leave or get nervous just because he says t\your a distraction...keep getting at it until you get an answer. I think he's telling u that you're a distraction is because he wants you out of his problems...that's how guys are...they want to solve EVERYTHING by themselves..just take it one step at a time..it'll all work out, even if there is some hurting involoved...i promise:)
2006-07-09 09:51:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't assume that he doesn't like you anymore, etc. maybe there is something wrong. whether it's with his family or friends.
you are going to have to ask him. ask him to be honest with you. if he is honest and the truth hurts, it's better that way. you could be living a lie.
A lot of these people are saying that he doesn't like you anymore and that he might be with someone else. that is usually not the case. have some hope but be prepared for the worst... and the best of course!
BUT DON'T BREAK UP WITH HIM! this could be a big mistake.
#1-he might still like you
#2-if he is trying to get you to break up with him, and you do break up with him, he got out of the relationship *easily*. if he doesn't like you, he should be the man and just do it.
I HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS FOR THE BEST!
2006-07-09 09:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is trying to move on. Or maybe he is wanting to break up with you but hes afraid so he's hoping you will just end it first. I know thats not the answer you wanted to hear, but thats what it sounds like.
You deserve better than someone calling you a distraction. I hope you find a better guy that will treat you with a little more respect. good luck. :)
2006-07-09 09:46:54 · answer #5 · answered by Bride2Be 8/30/08 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's trying to get out of your relationship, and avoiding the whole thing, I'd start realizing he's not interested anymore. Sorry.
2006-07-09 09:46:52 · answer #6 · answered by bsnana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure why you put this in this category..but it sounds like either you are smothering him and he feels trapt and wants to get some fresh air, or he's just lost interest in you. Why don't you ask him what the deal is?
2006-07-09 09:46:26 · answer #7 · answered by kaloptic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are either smothering him too much, or he's secretly interested in someone else.
Sometimes you just need a few days away from each other so you can recharge.
2006-07-09 09:45:55 · answer #8 · answered by Joey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, I think he might be with someone else, that or he just not that into u anymore.
If ur not having fun, find someone else who can make feel happier.
2006-07-09 09:46:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't sound good, girl. call him out and find out the truth but be prepared for the worst.
i just seperated from my wife and some of those signs look familiar. good luck.
2006-07-09 09:47:25 · answer #10 · answered by zoo2626 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋