i told my boyfriend i was on birth control...and technically i was...but i was on the shot...and by the time everything was sorted out...well i think im pregnant...what is the best way to tell him??? and who should i tell first...him or my parent??? HELP ME BREAK THE ICE!!!
2006-07-09 09:39:53 · 9 answers · asked by ruspecialenuf 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
i should mention i dont belive in abortion...and i was adopted and i still feel the emptieness of not knowing my parents and i dont want that for this child...i am finacially stable....
2006-07-09 09:46:29 · update #1
First, take a pregnancy test right away so you know for sure!
As to whom you should tell first, that's a personal decision. The best first person to talk to might be a Crisis Line, look up the number for your town and you can call someone who is professionally trained to help people your age deal with these kinds of situations. It's free and I think it'll be a good way to break the ice.
2006-07-09 09:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by quincy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
financially stable huh? Do you have like $100,000.00 in the bank because that is about how much it will cost if not more to raise a child. You first have to get through all of the doctor visits during your pregnancy, then there is the birth itself, and a hospital stay...depending on whether you have insurance or not it could cost you about $35,000.00 just to have a baby. Then of course there are regular doctor visits during the first year...after that the once a year physicals not to mention the dozens of trips to the emergency room and that is all before they are two. There are diapers to buy, formula, clothes, baby soaps, shampoos, oils and lotions. Then of course you have to feed and clothe the child at least until they are 18, and then you get to pay for their college education...So you're financially stable huh? Think again...as what to tell your boyfriend...nothing until you are absolutely sure you are pregnant then you might suggest he get a job and start making child support payments...
2006-07-16 05:06:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you need to do is go to the Doctor and find out for sure if you are pregnant. There's no point of telling anyone anything if you don't know. If you are too scared to go to the doctor's buy a home pregnancy test. If it turns out that you are pregnant...i don't think you it truly matters who you tell first just as long as you tell your parents and your boyfriend. Don't try to keep it a secret. Tell whoever you feel most comfortable talking to first.
2006-07-09 17:05:15 · answer #3 · answered by hope this helps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go through wi it ur baby will have a terrbile life ur boyfriend will leave u and ur parents will be ahsamed not to mention ur a adopted s they prolly have higher expecations of u not to soun like abitch but they prolly do
2006-07-09 16:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by sucksazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not get an abortion... Or listen to any stupid answers people post on here... You need to tell him and then tell your parents.
2006-07-09 16:44:26 · answer #5 · answered by linzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the doctor and get a test. Then if u are pregnant tell your parents. Then tell your bf. DONT GET A ABORION!! IT CREUL AND MURDER!!!!
2006-07-09 17:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by Elisey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him first and talk it over and then you AND him should confront your parents and dont listen to the first ******* dumb *** that answered your question but yes tell your boyfriend first... good luck
2006-07-09 20:29:12 · answer #7 · answered by cassi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL YOUR BOYFRIEND IF HE LOVES YOU BOTH GO & TELL MOM & DAD FIND OUT FIRST IF YOU ACTUALLY ARE PREGNANT NO SUPPORT FROM YOUR BOY FRIEND GET TO MOM SOON AS YOU CAN
2006-07-09 16:45:04 · answer #8 · answered by Penney S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should def. tell your parents, and then the parents can talk.. its easier.
2006-07-09 16:44:20 · answer #9 · answered by ▪♥▪ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋