well like i have this friend kayla and like every time i go over to her house its cause i got ciggarettes and all or im with a guy she really likes but like i dunno i think thats the only reason she hangs out with me but like when im upset shell usually be like are u ok ill say yeah then she be like are u sure? like she does care bout me i dunno wat to do cause i care so much but like wat if i stoped bringing ciggarettes would she jus be like not wanting to be friends i dunno im confused help plz
2006-07-09 09:10:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Stop bringing the cigarettes. Then you'll know really quick if that's the reason for her liking you or not. Either that, or come right out and ask her.
2006-07-09 09:14:36 · answer #1 · answered by rltouhe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop bringing the cigs and see what happens... as long as everything goes 2 ways it should be fine... if u feel sad and she asks if ur ok then tell the truth... maybe if u make it more of a friendship then ull feel less used... if u still feel used then talk to her about tell her u just wanna be honest.
2006-07-09 09:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by Velvet Rain Drops 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, she's using you. bring over a gay guy next time. or a girl that really looks and acts like a guy and who's a lesbian. don't tell her it's a girl, though, and watch as shes unknowingly attracted to her. :)
2006-07-09 09:15:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly its demanding to assert, in case your courting from the start changed into not so properly, then he's utilising you. If the courting from the start is okay, then he merely attempting to teach some love.
2016-11-01 12:35:23 · answer #4 · answered by dopico 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look up codependency on google
2006-07-09 09:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me like she is
2006-07-09 09:28:14 · answer #6 · answered by cierra_mrtnz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋